The ugly duckling

[TommyH123]

I’m getting second hand embarrassment from some of the posts on here

[AmorInfinito8]

Some serious fucking cringe about...I mean seriously?

HAHAHA, come on be a Lover not a Hater!!
I was just back from seeing one of my new girls last night when I wrote that and ment every word, back in work this morning with that ear to ear grin everyone so far has said "Fuck you must have had a good Xmas" if only they knew

[AmorInfinito8]

I'm on cloud9 this morning,
best start to the New year
and New Year's resolution on track!!

[Larrii]

...

What or who do you really see??

A compassionate person? A fool?
An ugly duckling, or I'm sure
the fools will say a stud!!
Do we really have the capacity to see our selves or is it just a search for validation from others!
or easier just to lie to yourselves!!?

Don't overthink it.

[Rockerman]

HAHAHA, come on be a Lover not a Hater!!
I was just back from seeing one of my new girls last night when I wrote that and ment every word, back in work this morning with that ear to ear grin everyone so far has said "Fuck you must have had a good Xmas" if only they knew

Fair enough. I like having sex with women too.

Try to be a small bit more cynical going forward. The constant joy and cringe gets weary .

[AmorInfinito8]

Yea, I'll try to hold back the Lover in me
and save it more for the ladies 😜

[bmw528]

Yea, I'll try to hold back the Lover in me
and save it more for the ladies ��

Maybe save it for the mirror?

[Joelegs]

Guys age comes to us all. We all carry physical and emotional scars, but that's just life and getting older. It's best just to accept the wrinkles and get on with it. My body feels old after years of physically abusing it, broken bones, scars cartilage problems, ringing in my ears you name it, but in my head I'm still me. I don't feel old, l just feel like me. We aren't have thankful for the small things. There's been times when the shite was hitting the fan all around me and then there was a moment of stillness when you just felt thankful for the smallest stupid things.Those small things are the the golden nuggets in life.

[IDF2]

Interesting question !

Ever since I was a young girl I’ve always been told how pretty I was , then as I hit my teens

boys and men started fawning over me . I was young , didn’t understand the power of it ;

Oh to have my today’s knowledge and wisdom when I was 20 years old lol !

: At home I was told I was ugly , stupid , and many other bad things a child , an innocent young girl

should not be told or talked to and about in such ways - that was family ;

Mom died when I was young and got an evil stepmother ; it left its mark .

So I never understood what other people saw in me as far as beauty ; I always strived to have my

strengths elsewhere : be smart , clever , excel in school ; I was born / or became a kind person .

To this day , when I look in the mirror I don’t necessarily see my own attractiveness though

many attest to it , but rather see the qualities I developed and I am proud of .

That is what I see in My mirror .

I feel so sorry for you, it must have been hard.

But look at you now.

[bananabox999]

I rarely care what others think. Tho i can be a little self conscious, im working on it and pretty happy with the results.