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  1. 02-01-23, 00:35 #1
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    Who is in the mirror?

    We all have to at some point during the day
    look into that mirror,
    some more than others!! What do you see??

    I tend to see all my imperfections,
    old scares off centre eye lids
    Nostrils to big, brown eyes that don't seem to hold a soul, Time, a guy who never seems to smile!!
    Sometimes I don't really know who he is!!

    On occasion without warning I'll see my reflection when I'm really happy or having fun and think! Yes I can see what people see in you, but very rarely, unfortunately.

    More often than not I see someone I don't know! Someone I don't find attractive,
    Someone so off centre he doesn't deserve to be me!! That's not me I think!!?

    Feeling inadequate or not what you think other people want you to be is something most people feel. But it's a lie, the image is always in your own head, you're always your own worst critic!!

    What or who do you really see??

    A compassionate person? A fool?
    An ugly duckling, or I'm sure
    the fools will say a stud!!
    Do we really have the capacity to see our selves or is it just a search for validation from others!
    or easier just to lie to yourselves!!?
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmorInfinito8 View Post
    Who is in the mirror?

    We all have to at some point during the day
    look into that mirror,
    some more than others!! What do you see??

    I tend to see all my imperfections,
    old scares off centre eye lids
    Nostrils to big, brown eyes that don't seem to hold a soul, Time, a guy who never seems to smile!!
    Sometimes I don't really know who he is!!

    On occasion without warning I'll see my reflection when I'm really happy or having fun and think! Yes I can see what people see in you, but very rarely, unfortunately.

    More often than not I see someone I don't know! Someone I don't find attractive,
    Someone so off centre he doesn't deserve to be me!! That's not me I think!!?

    Feeling inadequate or not what you think other people want you to be is something most people feel. But it's a lie, the image is always in your own head, you're always your own worst critic!!

    What or who do you really see??

    A compassionate person? A fool?
    An ugly duckling, or I'm sure
    the fools will say a stud!!
    Do we really have the capacity to see our selves or is it just a search for validation from others!
    or easier just to lie to yourselves!!?
    Maybe your worrying a bit too much about what you see in the mirror?. Why even bother looking in the mirror because what you see, others dont? .You are what you are. Sound s like you worry alot about what other people think. Lets be honest, the people that matter will take you as you are. Anyone one else that has a problem with whats in the mirror arent worth thinking about.
    Last edited by bmw528; 02-01-23 at 01:42. Reason: Another way to combat your problem is to get rid of all the mirrors at home and ye wont need to worry about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bmw528 View Post
    Maybe your worrying a bit too much about what you see in the mirror?. Why even bother looking in the mirror because what you see, others dont? .You are what you are. Sound s like you worry alot about what other people think. Lets be honest, the people that matter will take you as you are. Anyone one else that has a problem with whats in the mirror arent worth thinking about.
    Thanks,
    but the thread is a concept l have given a truth about myself because I thought it would help others to be honest, if not honest at least consider
    Some people are very self conscious about themselves and would never tell anyone in the real world, but here there's anonymity, sometimes talking can help people.
    no one can truly perceive themselves, so how do you see yourself in that mirror,
    If you look at yourself with a smile you tend to look younger and more attractive to yourself. example
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    Why even bother looking in the mirror because what you see, others dont?

    The point and yes I'm being controversial again
    What do you see, as perception of yourself, do you see a god a warrior a clown a man

    But truthfully
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmorInfinito8 View Post
    Why even bother looking in the mirror because what you see, others dont?

    The point and yes I'm being controversial again
    What do you see, as perception of yourself, do you see a god a warrior a clown a man

    But truthfully
    I dont need to look in the mirror at this stage because I am happy enough to go along with what everyday brings, be it the clown, the serious me ,when the need be, the happy me, when I am happy, the sorry me, if I upset someone, and more importantly to try and deal with whatever is ahead in life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bmw528 View Post
    Maybe your worrying a bit too much about what you see in the mirror?. Why even bother looking in the mirror because what you see, others dont? .You are what you are. Sound s like you worry alot about what other people think. Lets be honest, the people that matter will take you as you are. Anyone one else that has a problem with whats in the mirror arent worth thinking about.
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    I second this . Totally spot on. You've your own identity to accept. Regardless. Warts an all
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    I see a stunner, end of story 🤣
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    Quote Originally Posted by TommyH123 View Post
    I see a stunner, end of story ��
    OMG you mean a TASER WTF like
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    Quote Originally Posted by beautyaddict View Post
    OMG you mean a TASER WTF like
    🤣, I’ve the same effect on the ladies, it’s the silver fox look, a quick check in the mirror every morning but to make sure I’ve still got it….yeah it’s doesn’t go away 🤣
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