So much more than just sex!

[bananabox999]

Whenever your friends post on Facebook/Instagram etc it’s going to be the sanitised/shiny version of their life. Take all social media posts with a pinch of salt.

+1 on this. Its all roses on the surface.

[Joelegs]

Humans are relation by their nature. We are hardwired to seek to make a connection on some level with other people. We do this every day with without realising it like: the few seconds when we pay at a till, when we are applying for a mortgage, dealing with people on the phone and having our hair cut.

But we have to keep in mind the nature of the relationship and context. When I go into my local coffee shop the staff know my order without asking me, they know me and call me by name. We build all kinds of connections with people in life. I think this is achieved though treating people like human beings and having mutual respect.

The issues starts when we misread the level of connection we have with another person. Most men visit an escort because they want sexual intercourse. This is a very human need and a very intimate service, but if the escort and client treate each other with respect, like human beings, I believe on some level there is potential for a professional connection to develop. However, this is a connection with boundaries! There is nothing wrong with enjoying the feeling of laying in the arms of a woman, enjoying a friendly smile and a conversation; even having a laugh together. The important thing to always remember is that you are this ladies client. It can happen, but she isn't likely to fall in love with you. Respect this golden rule and ladies tend to relax and build natural client relationships because they are not put in awkward positions. An escort did me a favour once. To thank her I was tempted to offer to take the lady out for lunch, but I didn't because she could have perceived that I was looking to spend free time in her company without paying for her service. I texted her and told her about the lunch idea and why I didn't offer to take her out. She texted me back 'you are the best, because you get it'. I understand the boundaries and play by the rules. In my opinion this is the key to success.

[Liberty Love]

I really hope the ladies advertising here realise just how valuable a service they provide.

I have been feeling quite down over the last few days. Christmas was a bit rubbish this year and to be honest I found myself lying in bed each night lost in my thoughts, feeling very lonely.

I'm a single guy and it only hit me this year that although I have family around me at Christmas I am alone. Lots of people I was in college and school with seem to be moving on in their lives, everytime you go on Instagram or Facebook there's another one moving into their new home, having a baby or getting engaged etc.

Usually I don't care about these things, I'm used to being single and I normally enjoy my own company but for some reason this Christmas it hit me like a tonne of bricks.

So fast forward to last night, I was dropping some pals into town after work, they were heading out but I couldn't as I had work this morning. Was just about to turn the car back towards home when I decided to take a quick look on here see if anyone caught my eye.

Slim pickings as not many girls advertising just after Christmas but I texted one massage profile, opted out of reviews and photos obviously not real but I had a very vague memory of possibly meeting her somewhere else before so when she replied and said she was available straight away I said feck it the worst that can happen is I get a bad massage.

Got there and she actually remembered my face from last time and last time was definitely 3 years ago maybe more. Lovely girl, just a little older and on the curvier side but for me this is no problem actually I found her body extremely sexy, its a pity she doesn't embrace her beauty and put up real photos.

Anyway I won't go into details but suffice to say I had a magic half an hour, nice basic massage to start and then a quickie to finish. But the sex wasn't the highlight for me, it was chatting to someone, holding this beautiful woman in my arms and feeling that connection. When we were finished we chatted as I got dressed and we were both laughing and joking like two friends.

I don't think she will ever know just how much she did for me last night but this girl really pulled me out of a dark place inside my own head. And I'm sure many others have had a similar effect on many other guys here. So for that I want to say thank you to any provider who sees this post.

Happy Christmas everyone,
Dan.

Thank you for your post 💋💕❤️ This is why I love sex work 💋