I was asked recently by a lovely young lady while in bed to tell her about my fantasies. Then, something happened, that doesn't aften happen. I was lost for words. I actually didn't know what to say to her. I wasn't sure if I couldn't think of a fantasy that could be fulfilled with her at that time and place, or I couldn't think of one at all...........It played on my mind a little bit. Now there's not much that I have an interest in doing, sexually, that I haven't already done, so maybe that was it.......

My question is this.........

When does a fantasy stop being a fantasy???

When it's fulfilled???

Is it then reality, and you think of it then only as a memory???

Or even after you've done it is it still a fantasy to you???

Or are some fantasies best left never being made a reality, and thus always remaining a fantasy???