There are just as many women who treat the man bad as there is just as many men treat a woman bad.Its just that in alot of cases the man looks worse because he puts a hand on the woman.Now before someone climbs on their horse and gallops in my direction any guy that touches a woman is a coward and any woman that lets a guy touch her and stays with him needs to really question her views on relationships.
Just as many women bully or treat men bad but its a different type of badness.Its a physcological bullying.It is out their.I dont put up with it for a second but it is out there.
To answer your q i think that ppl that need to treat their partners like this are actually expressing a weakness and inferiority in themselves.
Westside.
If you are a nice quiet chap in this country, just commit suicide, save yourself the hardship of trying to find an irish girl. I have gone through the motions and have given up on love.