there are other options, what about a Sugar Baby, they are happy if you just bring something along like a watch, mobile phone or tablet, some happy even with groceries or electric meter being paid
YOU NEED TO GAIN MORE CONFIDENCE , Think of girls like your best friend and not like Miss World contestants ...just go for it, you only here once and time goes by quickly, how many men on zimmer frames are thinking now they should have taken the chance, alot , good luck