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    Quote Originally Posted by achilles View Post
    Right so folks, I met a girl about 3 mths ago and have been seeing her on a weekly basis. I have never seen a girl more than twice.
    My time with her is absolutely incredible, the out of thus world fun n chat afterwards. I've gotten to know her personally I can definitely say.
    From one visit to the next all I can think about is her. She's so beautiful n so easy to chat to. I am smitten by her n I may be falling for her. She's in my head from one visit to the next.
    Anyone else have any views or opinions on my situation? Am I mad?
    If you haven't got a freebie by now its not true love
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    I had a post here but I don't see it. It's all in his head and not at all in hers. He's setting himself up for a fall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oldfool View Post
    You know the answer yourself. What you are saying is that she is really great at her job and gives excellent GFE.
    Great

    Now apply a reality check. Has she at any time not just accepted your donation in the same manner as the first time? Has she told you about her real life, home, parents, dreams .

    Have you opened up. I would bring this to ahead. If she is happy to change the relationship great. If not then both your wallet and heart will have had a narrow escape. If she agrees, will you accept her profession
    So very true. My wallet and heart are both taking a beating. And no I couldn't accept her profession with no disrespect to her and the ladies that provide this service.
    Definitely time for the reality check and just treat it as a transaction.
    Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oldfool View Post
    You know the answer yourself. What you are saying is that she is really great at her job and gives excellent GFE.
    Great

    Now apply a reality check. Has she at any time not just accepted your donation in the same manner as the first time? Has she told you about her real life, home, parents, dreams .

    Have you opened up. I would bring this to ahead. If she is happy to change the relationship great. If not then both your wallet and heart will have had a narrow escape. If she agrees, will you accept her profession
    Quote Originally Posted by WellDressed View Post
    Even if you have a great rapport and share intimate details with each other at the end of the day it started as a business relationship. Unless she has explicitly said that she wants to move in another direction the business aspect hasn't changed. These ladies have guys falling for them all the time. She is obviously good at providing a GFE but that's what you should treat it as, an experience and not an actual relationship. Otherwise it will end on bad terms. Not trying to put a downer on the way you feel, she may very like you but you have to remember that this is a job for escorts.
    Yes true. Could end with me being bitter because of my stupidity. I know she does like me, but at the end of the day she's out to make money. A pity really. The reality is would she even look at me if she met me and we didn't know each other.
    Thank you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oldfool View Post
    You know the answer yourself. What you are saying is that she is really great at her job and gives excellent GFE.
    Great

    Now apply a reality check. Has she at any time not just accepted your donation in the same manner as the first time? Has she told you about her real life, home, parents, dreams .

    Have you opened up. I would bring this to ahead. If she is happy to change the relationship great. If not then both your wallet and heart will have had a narrow escape. If she agrees, will you accept her profession
    Quote Originally Posted by Joelegs View Post
    If this thread isn't a send up, you are either going to have your wallet emptied or your heart broken; maybe both.

    Then you are going to get angry at the lady for playing when in fact all she was just doing her job and giving you great GFE.

    When men see a beautiful woman they always want more. Perhaps, they try to become friends with her in a hope of getting extra TLC. Perhaps they think that they are a special client. Perhaps they even fall in love and see themselves living out the storyline of "Pretty Woman".

    The best most clients can in reality hope to build with an escort is a good professional relationship/ professional friendship. One where she trusts you because she knows that when you book her you are not going to let her down. One where you are respectful and shower, arrive on time and leave on time. The escort may be thankful if you offer to help in some small way e.g. give advice on good, safe apartments, or intel. on if the cops never leave the address she is about to rent. She may like you as a good client, she might even like you as a person (but you will never honestly Known), but she most likely isn't going fall in love with you and have your kids. This does happen, but is very rare. She may give you a little extra time because she is bored and enjoying your conversation; this has happen to me, but I only stay over time if the lady insists and leave when I see it's time to go.

    The ladies I get on best with and treat me like a VIP all know that I understand the score. I respect them as a person who is doing their job and in return they respect me as a good client. Sure, there is even part of me who would love a beautiful woman to fall in love with me, but only for the hour that I am with her. Escorts provide fantasy and escape form real life. If you ended up having a relationship with this lady, perhaps the reality would be different, when you fancy sex and she is too tired, or ask her to give up working and she tells you where to go. Girls who can perhaps make thousands per week seldom what to become the wife of a plumper.

    Mate just enjoy the fun for what it is and if you want a real relationship get a girlfriend. I hope I don't seem too harsh, meeting escorts can be brilliant if everyone stays on script and paly the role they and meant to!
    All very true mate. She's very beautiful and a very rare find (not on this site). I have the mist wonderful time with her and the best gfe, actually better than any woman i ever had!
    . She likes me enough to provide this level of gfe but at the end of the day its about the money. She wouldn't see me if I asked for a freebie, I know.
    Thank you for your frankness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by achilles View Post
    Right so folks, I met a girl about 3 mths ago and have been seeing her on a weekly basis. I have never seen a girl more than twice.
    My time with her is absolutely incredible, the out of thus world fun n chat afterwards. I've gotten to know her personally I can definitely say.
    From one visit to the next all I can think about is her. She's so beautiful n so easy to chat to. I am smitten by her n I may be falling for her. She's in my head from one visit to the next.
    Anyone else have any views or opinions on my situation? Am I mad?
    Great stuff. Enjoy pal.

    It will run its course. Enjoy that feeling while it lasts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IDF2 View Post
    Great stuff. Enjoy pal.

    It will run its course. Enjoy that feeling while it lasts.
    How many toys did you have during your months holiday? i'd imagine quite a few

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