Smitten

[achilles]

Right so folks, I met a girl about 3 mths ago and have been seeing her on a weekly basis. I have never seen a girl more than twice.
My time with her is absolutely incredible, the out of thus world fun n chat afterwards. I've gotten to know her personally I can definitely say.
From one visit to the next all I can think about is her. She's so beautiful n so easy to chat to. I am smitten by her n I may be falling for her. She's in my head from one visit to the next.
Anyone else have any views or opinions on my situation? Am I mad?

[EscortInspector]

Take care of yourself.

[joggon]

remember to her this is a business ,

[WellDressed]

Take care of yourself.

And his wallet

[oldfool]

You know the answer yourself. What you are saying is that she is really great at her job and gives excellent GFE.
Great

Now apply a reality check. Has she at any time not just accepted your donation in the same manner as the first time? Has she told you about her real life, home, parents, dreams .

Have you opened up. I would bring this to ahead. If she is happy to change the relationship great. If not then both your wallet and heart will have had a narrow escape. If she agrees, will you accept her profession

[WellDressed]

Right so folks, I met a girl about 3 mths ago and have been seeing her on a weekly basis. I have never seen a girl more than twice.
My time with her is absolutely incredible, the out of thus world fun n chat afterwards. I've gotten to know her personally I can definitely say.
From one visit to the next all I can think about is her. She's so beautiful n so easy to chat to. I am smitten by her n I may be falling for her. She's in my head from one visit to the next.
Anyone else have any views or opinions on my situation? Am I mad?

Even if you have a great rapport and share intimate details with each other at the end of the day it started as a business relationship. Unless she has explicitly said that she wants to move in another direction the business aspect hasn't changed. These ladies have guys falling for them all the time. She is obviously good at providing a GFE but that's what you should treat it as, an experience and not an actual relationship. Otherwise it will end on bad terms. Not trying to put a downer on the way you feel, she may very like you but you have to remember that this is a job for escorts.

[PhilPhilPhil]

If she refuses money from you then it is something more than work, otherwise she is great at her job and you should enjoy it fully while 100% aware that it is a transaction for both of you, of course there can be a friendly connection but that connection will end the second your money dries up. And that's as it should be.

[MidlifeCrisis]

You have been here long enough to know the answer to your own questions.

You are not mad - you have just found an escort who is a great match for whatever it is you are looking for. If you can afford it, keep seeing her and cross your fingers that she stays around as long as possible.

Real relationships do occur between escort and client, but they are very rare, and they ALWAYS involve moving over to spending time together without money changing hands. If that isn't happening then you are just having some great appointments, that's all.

Some escorts tend to build quite close relationships with some regular clients, including some flirtatious messaging between appointments. This can be enjoyable for the client, but for some people it can mess with their head a bit.

I never looked for any kind of personal relationship, but I did once get very friendly with a regular escort. At one stage, I found myself feeling jealousy when I read about some of her activities with others. I soon caught myself on, and ended up being very comfortable about it all. We kept in touch for a couple of years after she retired.

Enjoy your good fortune and keep your feet on the ground.

[Joelegs]

If this thread isn't a send up, you are either going to have your wallet emptied or your heart broken; maybe both.

Then you are going to get angry at the lady for playing when in fact all she was just doing her job and giving you great GFE.

When men see a beautiful woman they always want more. Perhaps, they try to become friends with her in a hope of getting extra TLC. Perhaps they think that they are a special client. Perhaps they even fall in love and see themselves living out the storyline of "Pretty Woman".

The best most clients can in reality hope to build with an escort is a good professional relationship/ professional friendship. One where she trusts you because she knows that when you book her you are not going to let her down. One where you are respectful and shower, arrive on time and leave on time. The escort may be thankful if you offer to help in some small way e.g. give advice on good, safe apartments, or intel. on if the cops never leave the address she is about to rent. She may like you as a good client, she might even like you as a person (but you will never honestly Known), but she most likely isn't going fall in love with you and have your kids. This does happen, but is very rare. She may give you a little extra time because she is bored and enjoying your conversation; this has happen to me, but I only stay over time if the lady insists and leave when I see it's time to go.

The ladies I get on best with and treat me like a VIP all know that I understand the score. I respect them as a person who is doing their job and in return they respect me as a good client. Sure, there is even part of me who would love a beautiful woman to fall in love with me, but only for the hour that I am with her. Escorts provide fantasy and escape form real life. If you ended up having a relationship with this lady, perhaps the reality would be different, when you fancy sex and she is too tired, or ask her to give up working and she tells you where to go. Girls who can perhaps make thousands per week seldom what to become the wife of a plumper.

Mate just enjoy the fun for what it is and if you want a real relationship get a girlfriend. I hope I don't seem too harsh, meeting escorts can be brilliant if everyone stays on script and paly the role they and meant to!

[Benny123]

If this thread isn't a send up, you are either going to have your wallet emptied or your heart broken; maybe both.

Then you are going to get angry at the lady for playing when in fact all she was just doing her job and giving you great GFE.

When men see a beautiful woman they always want more. Perhaps, they try to become friends with her in a hope of getting extra TLC. Perhaps they think that they are a special client. Perhaps they even fall in love and see themselves living out the storyline of "Pretty Woman".

The best most clients can in reality hope to build with an escort is a good professional relationship/ professional friendship. One where she trusts you because she knows that when you book her you are not going to let her down. One where you are respectful and shower, arrive on time and leave on time. The escort may be thankful if you offer to help in some small way e.g. give advice on good, safe apartments, or intel. on if the cops never leave the address she is about to rent. She may like you as a good client, she might even like you as a person (but you will never honestly Known), but she most likely isn't going fall in love with you and have your kids. This does happen, but is very rare. She may give you a little extra time because she is bored and enjoying your conversation; this has happen to me, but I only stay over time if the lady insists and leave when I see it's time to go.

The ladies I get on best with and treat me like a VIP all know that I understand the score. I respect them as a person who is doing their job and in return they respect me as a good client. Sure, there is even part of me who would love a beautiful woman to fall in love with me, but only for the hour that I am with her. Escorts provide fantasy and escape form real life. If you ended up having a relationship with this lady, perhaps the reality would be different, when you fancy sex and she is too tired, or ask her to give up working and she tells you where to go. Girls who can perhaps make thousands per week seldom what to become the wife of a plumper.

Mate just enjoy the fun for what it is and if you want a real relationship get a girlfriend. I hope I don't seem too harsh, meeting escorts can be brilliant if everyone stays on script and paly the role they and meant to!

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