Quote Originally Posted by AmyTantraMassage View Post
No bother. Ye its handy enough buy make sure you speak to the lady and she's dominating enough for you. If you forgo the cuffs or can bring your own I'm epic at edging though i think it'sbetter without the cuffs if you’re also ordered to not touch/move. I just don't do role playing or 'force'. Bossy, yes. Forcing, no. Even eith consent it might be hard for some women unless they're a switch. People confuse domination /being in charge/,conyrol and being in control of someone/force/coercion. A dom takes care of his or her subs needs but the sub is essentially the one in control coz it all stops when safeword is said. Anyone who does the later is not a dom. And a 'sub' who requires bring forced is not a sub but someone who needs therapy to deal with their trauma. Dom/sub is not role-playing as a lot of trust is required. So stick to role-playing/escorts as a true dom would never do 'force'. In my very well informed and always right factually based opinion. Its tough for us all knowing people these days. Anyways, best of luck.
Very good point re Sub being in ultimate control of a proper session - safe word trumps All x