What makes a meeting don’t “click” for an escort!

[Gabbystudent]

I have been thinking about to write that for a long time.
I have got some of the most lovely guys in Ireland with perfect hygiene manners, there’s nothing that makes me entusiasmatic than kiss someone that is with a fresh breath and take the shower that’s offered cleaning the all body, specially inside the skin of his private’s, what seems that for few guys is not something common.

Some of others are spotless in they private parts but got nose blind about they arm Pit, so for more engaged that you try to be at some point is difficult to hide the inconvenience that the bad smell in the room causes. Of course I would never say that directly to any client as I find that rude. But lack of hygiene is something that makes
deny few favourites like French kiss and others.
What’s a shame because those guys in general are actually lovely persons.
I always make sure that I am fresh and clean for each client, as the GFE is offered.

[enfr]

I like this thread, it's really good to see the Escort's perspective into it.

I always try to read the Escort's Interviews to understand a bit better their likes and dislikes. I met incredible women that I only got interested about after reading their opinions and messages.

I believe it's so important that both parties can enjoy the time as much possible, thus knowing what's is ok/nok helps.

Besides ads, I most times read the escort profile, but few put there the things they enjoy or details about their preferences.

Some girls love chocolate, others are tired of it. I never know if I should bring some with me 😉
Perhaps could be a nice wine or something more interesting to help spare time.

I hope more ladies feel motivated to share their views, I'm keen to know it 😅

Thanks Angelita.

[robbie9]

Maybe offer deodrant.

Every human is different.

There only 1% of people out there who are bad apples

Of course I would never say that directly to any client as I find that rude.

[AyannaMelek]

For me it has to be the initial contact, I’m often times abrupt myself over the phone because it’s my personal way of weeding out timewasters. It’s either abrupt or cold and reserved just sticking to key points in the discussion. I hate the rude questions(what services you do, what’s the price, is that your real photos, etc) if someone asks for things like that and are rude over the phone I will reconsider seeing them. Usually if a phone call isn’t great that generally means the actual contact won’t be smooth either. I don’t mind double checking things, because it’s always great to do so, but aggressive over the phone is a no go for me. A lot of the times clients do need to bear in mind that it’s not just their phone call that we answer, it’s dozens a day, so it will become nerve wrecking at some point to go through the same questions over and over again.


I also hate it when people ask for services that aren’t listed there. Just because other ladies may offer other services for extra that doesn’t mean all of us do(that’s always a thing specified in my profile if I recall correctly)
If someone does get to meet me, if you are abrupt, try to push my boundaries or rude that’s a complete turn off. I like to be treated gently, just like you’d treat a woman you would go out on a few dates with and end up doing the deed with.if I don’t like something I will say, because I wouldn’t want to give someone the impression I like that certain thing being done to me.

Thirdly not being on time. Let me know about that, I may have to delay other appointments as well. It’s always good to give a heads up. If I am delayed I will let you know as well.

Last one is the lack of hygiene. I will say it politely at first, but if persistent I will be straightforward and honest about it. The toiletries in the bathroom are free to use, they aren’t there just for display and I don’t think anyone would like to be told no I don’t want to do that. I hate refusing services that I list there, but then again I also don’t like to give the false impression that it’s ok to come visit me and not freshen up a bit and still get all the services. If I am asked why I don’t want to do owo when a client refuses a shower for the reason that he showered in the morning and he is still ok halfway through the day then the problem isn’t with me.


These are my turnoffs,in no particular order. I think that after so many years of escorting i know my likes and dislikes regarding clients. I’d much rather be honest about it rather than say nice things just for the sake of it. At the end of the day I’d rather see less people but not be stressed than see a lot and hate everyone ��

[Rockerman]

It's crazy that some guys aren't putting in more effort. I'd be completely clean and smart just going to the pub nevermind making a visit. Those guys give punters a bad name.

I don't like when an escort is cold and distant on the phone and I wouldn't be interested in that at all. Yes I take into account the many calls off idiots that gets very tiring, but as one of the good guys and someone who simply does not waste an escort's time I would be unimpressed with that...I usually text and only call when necessary.

1% of people are bad apples? It's sadly more than that for sure.

[Danny1983]

I really don't know how guys can not prepare properly
Always I'm clean and shaven mouthwash ect
How do u expect to get good service if you're not clean?

[Ric Hardgear]

I have been thinking about to write that for a long time.
I have got some of the most lovely guys in Ireland with perfect hygiene manners, there’s nothing that makes me entusiasmatic than kiss someone that is with a fresh breath and take the shower that’s offered cleaning the all body, specially inside the skin of his private’s, what seems that for few guys is not something common
What’s a shame because those guys in general are actually lovely persons.
I always make sure that I am fresh and clean for each client, as the GFE is offered.

Nice post, Angelita just wondering have you ever refused a punter on sight?
As some guys have walked on first seeing an escort

[AyannaMelek]

It's crazy that some guys aren't putting in more effort. I'd be completely clean and smart just going to the pub nevermind making a visit. Those guys give punters a bad name.

I don't like when an escort is cold and distant on the phone and I wouldn't be interested in that at all. Yes I take into account the many calls off idiots that gets very tiring, but as one of the good guys and someone who simply does not waste an escort's time I would be unimpressed with that...I usually text and only call when necessary.

1% of people are bad apples? It's sadly more than that for sure.

Unfortunately not just 1% last week for the first time in 9 years I almost burst into tears on the phone….I know it ruins it for others, I’m not completely cold, but will always keep it polite. Sometimes I’m colder than other times because I might be in a shop or outside for a walk where I can’t really start elaborating. Other times I would be patient and explain, but after last week to be honest I’m beginning to reconsider. But then again I think my profile itself speaks for the type of person I am and also if someone is registered on here they can also get a feel of how I am x

[Rockerman]

Unfortunately not just 1% last week for the first time in 9 years I almost burst into tears on the phone….I know it ruins it for others, I’m not completely cold, but will always keep it polite. Sometimes I’m colder than other times because I might be in a shop or outside for a walk where I can’t really start elaborating. Other times I would be patient and explain, but after last week to be honest I’m beginning to reconsider. But then again I think my profile itself speaks for the type of person I am and also if someone is registered on here they can also get a feel of how I am x

Yes you seem like a nice person to me . Easier said than done, but try not to let the idiots bring you down.

[Rooney2808]

Thirdly not being on time. Let me know about that, I may have to delay other appointments as well. It’s always good to give a heads up. If I am delayed I will let you know as well.

I was ridiculously late when I met you Nina, sorry, and I knew that you were annoyed. This was totally understandable as my lateness was completely my fault. You gave me clear directions and I somehow made a balls of it! But I think we got over that initial annoyance and still had a great meeting. I think this was down to your personality and my own, although you were annoyed when I eventually got to you you put that to one side and decided to enjoy our time together.
Also I think some punters might get defensive in that situation and blame the escort for her directions etc., but I fully accepted I was at fault and accepted that with humility.

I don't particularly mind an escort being cold or abrupt on the phone. In my view there are two side to what we do here, business and pleasure. Handle the business on the phone, get the point across, ensure everyone knows what the situation is and then when you meet the pleasure side of things can run smoothly.

I nearly always have a shower before I leave my house to meet an escort and then I always have a shower at the escorts place.

One big turn off is being handed a towel which still feels slightly damp!