Do you remember your first love ?

[Banned User]

I was a little reticent on starting this thread at first.

Now I am glad that I did. Ye have posted some lovely replies.

Bless you All.

I do look forward to some more.

I think that I will try post mine soon, I'm still thinking how to phrase things so as to do it justice. I know ye understand.

[WD-40]

do you know what happened to him/ her ?

Do you ever think about them ?

What if you had your time over with them again ?

iv never loved,anyone i get close to just slips right past me,being a can of lubricant can be so lonely
but every time i silence a squeaky door i just know i chose the right path

[Mousey]

Do you know what happened to him/ her ?

Do you ever think about them ?

What if you had your time over with them again ?

Yep, she married the guy she met right after me. Which was a bit of a kick in the stones.

I don't ever think about her. It ended rather badly, I'm afraid. It's easier to turn those feelings you had into disgust and focus on that rather than trying to be the bigger man.

If I had my time over again I'd dump her neurotic ass at the peak of our relationship and spare myself the crap that was to come.

[experienced punter]

Do you know what happened to him/ her ?

Shes a he now

Do you ever think about them ?

I 'm not sexually attracted to men

What if you had your time over with them again ?

as above

[Cable87]

Do you know what happened to him/ her ?

She is now working as a STRIPPER at a Gentleman's Club in Philadelphia Pennsylvania. She's also a Professional Triathelete. She's got a personal blog with photos and stories, I'll P.M. it to anyone interested so you can have a look and a read.

Do you ever think about them ?

I think about her sometimes, but not often. We were so young then; I was all of 16 years old when we were together. When I do think of her, it's only about the good times, and I can truly appreciate the times we shared. She got in touch with me a few years ago through my brother, and asked how I was doing. She e-mailed to tell me about how she was and asked what was going on with myself. We exchanged a few e-mails, and I asked if she wanted me to give her a ring-- she said no, because she never knows what to say on the phone, so I left it at that. But she did say that I was an important influence to her, which was very kind, and perhaps a bit more credit than I deserved. It's good to know that she's happy with where she's at and with what she's doing. I'm very happy for her.

What if you had your time over with them again ?

I don't know, it's hard to say. If it would turn out the same way that it did, because we had a rather nasty break-up, then maybe not. Her mother had a major part in breaking us up; as I was quite a bad-ass back then, she really came to hate me, and she manipulated my GF into breaking-up. This made the last few months of it really miserable, because it was nothing but fighting an tension. If I could go back and change things even a little, even just so our break-up was a little less protracted and painful, then yes, maybe I would. For me the most important thing is to rememeber the good times that we shared together. The memory of her will always be with me, and I'm glad that we were together.


All the best folks,

Cable 87

[Forrest]

Do you know what happened to him/ her ?

She married a friend of mine

Do you ever think about them ?

Not really. Our paths cross from time to time but we are friends now.

What if you had your time over with them again ?

I don't think I would change anything

[UKHeather]

Do you know what happened to him/ her ?

Do you ever think about them ?

What if you had your time over with them again ?

Yes, I recently made contact with him. I put his name into facebook and found him in less than a minute.

Thought about him..On and off over the years, yes.

If I had my time over again. I'd probably run away with him instead of listening to my parents.