A picture paints a thousand words, woke up to this post this morning and had me laughing with the thought of you in a club saying hey babe before we go home can i just ask do you take it up the ass and oh i want to finish off on your face, thanks for starting my day off with a big
Seriously though as has been said its all about respect and doing your homework prior to any punt.
If the girl has it on her enjoy list its a good start and when calling her for appt instead of saying do u do anal and facials a better way would be to say do you do what you have on your enjoy list as alot of girls wont discuss the finer detail in a telephone call because most but not all guys are just on the phone.
When you get there just relax and be "normal" and request what your looking for but remember its the way that you request it that matters polite. light humoured, funny, are all things a girl would prefer to deal with and set you up for a great time.
Elle x