u see, I'm the guy who goes to lingerie stores with his girlfriend to the hairdressers with her & wait(all day long) I buy her tampons buy her accessories hair ribbons bracelets get her make up in boots tell her I love her twice a day![]()
Over 30 years, I have lived with 4 escorts and been close to at least 50. I mean close in the sense that they have known the real me and my background and they have been able to talk to me about their family and history. Although not germane to the thread, I would make the point that not one of these escorts has ever tried to use her knowledge of me to cause me any kind of trouble.
Of these 50, 48 had come out of some form of fractured relationship or abuse of some kind which had lowered their value of themselves and, very often their relationship to men. There are thousands of gorgeous girs around working whereever for as little as €10 an hour. Why are they not working as escorts for €200 an hour?? The reason is that the money is way too low for what they have to give up in terms of self-respect. Escorting is not "just a job" and it is dangerous to think of it as such. By all means enjoy escorting and the independence that lots of money brings but it is very important for an escort to plan a way out and to recognise the hurt that she has suffered and get help for it.
I do not believe that it is possible for a man to love a woman who is an escort. At least, I have been there and it does not work for me and I am not a jealous type. I could probably handle it if I could be sure that all her clients were clean, friendly, respectfull and into gentle, regular sex. The reality is that there are too many dirty, arrogant dangerous men out there who do not like women and dislike paying for sex even more.
As Dolly says, clients are men and escorts are women. Like everyone else, they meet someone that they enjoy being with and who enjoys being with them. They look forward to seeing each other and they call it love. If you find yourself in this situation,great but please believe me that it is important to get help. You have issues to deal with that a couple who meet at a local dance do not. You do, however have the advantage of knowing the worst about each other.
I would just say to Dolly that I hope she meets someone that she genuinely loves enough to get a job in an office or somewhere and be happy to buy a fake gucci bag but have a guy who genuinely loves her. Most couples who love each other and set up shop together have some idea of having kids. What do you say to them, Dolly, or rather what does your partner say to them?? "Mum wants a new handbag so she has gone out to fuck a few guys"?? You both need to go back and find who you were before all the shit started.
Anyway I had hoped to meet Dolly when she is over next so this has probably blown that