Discounted callouts tonight.

[TheNads]

Anyone labouring under the impression that they are different, that those special few girls they see really are attracted to them & can't get enough of them is sadly mistaken.
Mia summed it up perfectly. Any reasonable looking girl can get sex any time they want, without having to put themselves through the hit & miss that is blindly inviting men to their place.
I've had a "road to damascus" moment some time back & decided my money & time would be better employed elsewhere. After 13yrs of punting I'm giving it a miss, tired of the emptiness of it all.
Not saying that I'll not make an exception for the 1 & only Dotty, if she ever arrives or Carmen & Malena, if they return but my days of scanning these boards are done.
I'll check in occasionally but I'm done with punting, fact is I wish I'd never started.
TheNads

[westcorklad]

Well the Girl is leaving the Buisness and im in no doubth what she said she was honest in,no need
to sugar coat it now this is the way the vast majority of the girls would view the thing,and guys
if u think they see it any other way ure kidding ureself.In fairness i look in the mirror and i know
that if i go to a club or pub not one girl that look like theese ladies would give me time of day.
They are working to make money end off. So they tolerate our company,hope we are clean and
pleasant so that the encounter wont be too unpleasant and as soon as we leave do their best to
frorget us and just concentrate on what they will do with the money.

Anyone labouring under the impression that they are different, that those special few girls they see really are attracted to them & can't get enough of them is sadly mistaken.
Mia summed it up perfectly. Any reasonable looking girl can get sex any time they want, without having to put themselves through the hit & miss that is blindly inviting men to their place.
I've had a "road to damascus" moment some time back & decided my money & time would be better employed elsewhere. After 13yrs of punting I'm giving it a miss, tired of the emptiness of it all.
Not saying that I'll not make an exception for the 1 & only Dotty, if she ever arrives or Carmen & Malena, if they return but my days of scanning these boards are done.
I'll check in occasionally but I'm done with punting, fact is I wish I'd never started.
TheNads

What Ber and the Nads have stated in the above posts is undoubtedly true.
I only started seeing escorts fairly recently but I am under no illusions that they want to spend time with me for any reason other than the money.
I guess the point has to be made though that we(or at least most of us) only see them for the companionship and sexual services they provide.
We can act out our fantasies with no strings attached and with no emotional commitments.
If that appears harsh I apologise but that is the reality for most of us at least.
To provide an analogy :
You go to your doctor or your dentist or your accountant because you have a need for the services that they provide but you dont want to spend the rest of your lives with them.(I dont anyway)
So the same thing applies to escorts.
Dont get me wrong. Im sure that there are a lot of genuinely friendly escorts out there but at the end of the day it all comes down to providing a paid service.

[pinball]

ber,
first of all i dont think it was professional of mia to say what she did. and to say something like that on her last day could mean she was unhappy to be escorting and only doing so as a means to an end, if so she just said to let us know she can do better than escorting. like any worker who is unhappy in their job after handing in their notice they sometimes burn their bridges, sometimes to their detriment. they leave with the attitude "my life is moving onwards and upwards and ill never be back"

i get the feeling mia is in this mind frame. i hope it works out for her and that she doesnt have to escort again if thats what she wants. but she may remember ber its blokes like you that have given her the opportunity not to escort again.

Secondly, like any industry there are people more than happy in their position and also people who find themselves doing it but not wanting to. the former u will find happy, willing and make u feel a 1000 bucks, the latter which i feel u may have met one or two of make u feel about 2 foot tall.

ber ur paying good money for a service, and yes its only a service, but i feel u should have more belief in urself and that the escorts u go to may actually enjoy the experience as well.

[Mioux]

jesus guys i was only joking with you, no need to take it all so bloody seriously!
i had a great time in the last four years, i never do anything i dont want to do/am not happy doing, so pinball you are totally wrong and very judgemental, and extremely serious. it would have been a lot nicer to wish me well if you really wanted to say anything. what you wrote says a lot more about you than me, as you dont know me, my situation, or my future plan. you are generalising and speaking as though you have wisdom about escorts and their private lives, which you do not.

i wasnt burning any bridges, im not coming back, but that isnt the point, im always friendly open minded and polite no matter what job im leaving, again, i was only messing with you! but goes to show how sensitive you are about your (harmless) hobby to turn it around on me pinball.

OF COURSE escorting was a means to an end! so will be every job i do solely to earn money, and there is nothing wrong with that. of course if i didnt need the money i wouldnt be doing it just for the love of having sex with strangers! just like working anywhere, no matter how much fun it was you wouldnt do it for free, and i can do it for free with people i am really attracted to and want a relationship with. it doesnt mean i dont enjoy it if im not dying to fuck the clients the second i lay eyes on them. it doesnt really work that way with any girl. really now, come on, relax on the harsh and judging attitude!

i totally enjoyed myself and made sure every man i was with enjoyed himself to.

it was a harmless joke. get over it, really, i have.

Ber you are kind of right but kind of wrong, for me, anyway, i did enjoy myself, its such an intimate thing, if you didnt like it you wouldnt do it, end of story. money alone wouldnt make me do it, no way. and i only did it every now and then.

ANYway, thanks again guys, be safe!
xx

[Mioux]

i get the feeling mia is in this mind frame. i hope it works out for her and that she doesnt have to escort again if thats what she wants. but she may remember ber its blokes like you that have given her the opportunity not to escort again.
.

what? how on EARTH has ber given me the opportunty not to escort again. I am the only person that gives opportunities to me, what you have said makes no sense.
its my choice, Ber or anyone else has nothing to do with it.
I also didnt start a debate about me leaving and i didnt want one started. thats also my choice, so please respect that. you can start your own seperate one if you both really want to argue about someone neither of you has met. thanks.

[anon361]

Best of luck Mia, wish you every success in the future as I would any person moving on and changing career, sometimes there is such shite on these threads, I think most got the joke in your last post

Anyway, my hard luck that I was born too soon and couldn't get to see you before life took it's natural course

[apprentice]

good luck Mia!

[Mioux]

THANKYOU guys! xx

[carlos marvado]

Mia, all the best in your future now that you are hanging up the uniforms, the lube, baby wipes and all the other paraphernalia of the job. Hopefully the next time you use baby wipes, it will be for a different purpose.

To those who disagreed with what Mia said, well of course it's about making money, but then so is property development, banking, politics and just about every other commercial activity.

TheNads, brother you are always welcome to join my organisation for retired punters.....Puntersanon (also known as the Fellowship of the Cockring). Who knows, we might even entice some former escorts to sign up and regale us with tales of their former exploits. You could'nt find any better after dinner speakers.

[TheNads]

My name is Nads & I'm an NSA sexaholic (or is that puntaholic ?).
I 1st realised that I had a problem when I was 13 & was single handedly (so to speak) guilty of offing a whole toilet roll in a day's pedalling. It only got worse, my mother locked the supplies press & I used to have very hard socks after that .........................................