Victor, the only answer is to sort out these details before meeting, either by e-mail or PM, if the escort does not use these then you need to be clear about all these favourites, extras and price on the phone, I know sometimes language is a barrier, but it's the only way to avoid mix-ups and disappointments........
"It's far easier to fight for principles than to live up to them."
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Yeah I've been through most/all of the situations and I know the ropes - I usually check to see what is available over the phone but there are still situations where you are told that a service is available and then things change when you are "on-site".
This applies particularly with OWO (sometimes either very brief andf cursory or point blank refused) and French kissing, where the escort thinks a light brush of the lips with no tongues fulfils their part of the bargain.
I usually shower and use mouthwash before a visit but still there can be issues in these areas.
This is where reviews are invaluable, they usually give the REAL story. Even then you can come a cropper but they are the best insurance policy I know for a good punt (unless you are visiting Irish Fiona of course).
Cheers
Vic