Originally Posted by
Mia
Posted by Dogithabone: ''it would be great to think that girls became escorts because of some kind of vocation or strong personality but this is never the case. I doubt if there is a single escort out there who has not come out of a bad relationship with a father, a boyfriend or some other abusive encounter. Something has happened in the girls life to reduce her self-value and self-respect. Most women might consider shagging Robert Redford if there was €1m on offer but being fucked by the great unwashed at a €100 a time is a totally different matter. I think that "dysfunctionality" is not an unreasonable term.
However the important thing is that escorts recognise the damage that has been done to them by past relationships and plan a way forward to a healthy future where they can support themselves without escorting and fully value and respect themselves as individuals.
I know that I must sound like some religious fruitcake but nothing could be further from the truth. It is because I enjoy so much the company of these girls as individuals and not just bodies, that I am sensitive to the pain inside them.''
RIGHT:
'this is never the case', how on earth can you so sweepingly claim this? what research have you done to claim this as a fact? do you have surveys statistics, questionarres to back this up? did you do a teleresearch campaign on the issue? or is it just your opinion, which doesnt count for much after i read the rest of your utterly patronizing and infuriating post.
Nothing abusive has ever happened to me. I am completely in charge of every appointment and know exactly what i am doing. i am not a victim. i have an EXTREMELY high level of self respect and how dare you suggest oherwise. i am NOT dysfunctional in the least and have a happy healthy life with many ambitions, plans and adventures. i have a loving family, have plenty of money, (not just through escorting; in my family). I dont depend on escorting as a full time career, but there is absolutely no problem with those who do. I have UTMOST respect for the other girls ive talked to on thiss site. NOT ONE OF THEM have been anything but bubbly friendly funny and clever girls.
I have three qualifications including four year degree, i can speak three languages, i have had three boyfriends, all of whom were amazing wonderful spiritual people. i am a skilled writer and musician. my father is the best father in the world, i would be lost without him. my mother the same. I enjoy most of my appointments, i get on well with people as i am so friendly open minded and kind. The clients i have a problem with (has only happened twice in three/four years of escorting) i simply tell them i want to leave, and i go. i have security that waits for me on long outcalls, I have never had to use his services, ever. I enjoy my time with my clients, and look forward to seeing my regulars, of which there are four.
Despite all you say, you use escorts regularly, you fucking hypocrite. you are 'sensitive to the pain inside them'. JESUS, give me a fucking break, please, you know NOTHING about ANYBODIES pain my dear, nothing. what do you do, give them a cup of tea, ask them about their personal problems with men (which no doubt led them to a dissolution of their self esteem and then to the 'seedy' world of escorting) and then fuck them senseless anyway? are you for real?
get yourself a wife (and a life) and stop asserting yourself as being somehow in the know, as you are only showing yourself to be a pompous twat.
You dont sound in any way like a religious nutjob. you sound like a powertripping, egotistical, chauvanistic man with a severe problem in your relations with women. If you feel so bad for us in our victimhood kindly remove your dick from our pussies and DO something about it then! but dont be a sad old man hypocrite and fuck us while telling us how dysfunctional we are. I think you may be the one with the problem, the dysfunctional problem, rather than me. i KNOW there is nothing wrong with me, i love myself and my life, and i get that vibe from all the other girls ive spoken to. if i dont approve of something, i generally dont use that product or service. You sound like someone who takes pleasure in having power, and being the 'bettter person'.
I dont usually take part in random conversations here but your post just infuriated me.
also Robert Redford....?!!!! How old are you??!!