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[jessie]

I am sorry that I have annoyed you. It is not my intention to annoy anyone. However, I have to say that I am amazed by your story. You come from a happy family, with all these languages and degrees, yet you pursue a career in escorting??? Why? Would I be right in guessing that your family and boyfriends do not fully support you in your chosen career? Do they even know about it? In some ways yours is probably one of the most dysfunctional stories that I have come across. I would love to meet you. I like to live dangerously!!
Yes, I am very old and dysfunctional myself. I would never consider myself better than anyone but I have been luckier than most. I should never have said "never" as there are exceopions, usually where a woman is supporting a child or a habit

I think you probably or have a very low IQ and no brains or are just trying to stir up people with stupid comments, just joking around. I would like to believe the last one.
Because your comment

I should never have said "never" as there are exceptions, usually where a woman is supporting a child or habit

is way to much. It's so said reading such crap out of peoples mind.
In all those years that I've been doing this job, yes JOB, I never met any dysfunctional escort. But yes lots of dysfunctional clients. Also do you really think all escorts have children or a bad habits?
Let me tell you something, most escorts are intelligent, have high self esteem, have college or university degrees, had normal jobs in the past or still normal jobs besides escorting, come from a normal functional family without any abuse at all etc etc and I can go on. If we are so dysfunctional how do you think we can do this job and provide good service. You have to have a lots of brains and know how of people to do this job properly. I choose to do this job even having 3 university degrees and top level jobs for years. And so what? Am I now dysfunctional because I choose another carrier? A carrier that I like and enjoy. So do most of the escorts, they choose for this consciously and enjoy it as well.
Ooh well, I don't think it's worth it to loose more breath on this subject, you probably will not understand it anyway and will stuck in that little close minded and judgmental round box like all your fellow brainless friends.

[skyblue41]

Well Lisa are you out there? Your thread certainly started something off even if its not 'your' escorting career!!

[adogwithabone]

I think you probably or have a very low IQ and no brains or are just trying to stir up people with stupid comments, just joking around. I would like to believe the last one.
Because your comment is way to much. It's so said reading such crap out of peoples mind.
In all those years that I've been doing this job, yes JOB, I never met any dysfunctional escort. But yes lots of dysfunctional clients. Also do you really think all escorts have children or a bad habits?
Let me tell you something, most escorts are intelligent, have high self esteem, have college or university degrees, had normal jobs in the past or still normal jobs besides escorting, come from a normal functional family without any abuse at all etc etc and I can go on. If we are so dysfunctional how do you think we can do this job and provide good service. You have to have a lots of brains and know how of people to do this job properly. I choose to do this job even having 3 university degrees and top level jobs for years. And so what? Am I now dysfunctional because I choose another carrier? A carrier that I like and enjoy. So do most of the escorts, they choose for this consciously and enjoy it as well.
Ooh well, I don't think it's worth it to loose more breath on this subject, you probably will not understand it anyway and will stuck in that little close minded and judgmental round box like all your fellow brainless friends.

I do not have much time to look at the website so my posts are irregular and I miss a lot that goes on.
If you have, as you say "three university degrees and top level jobs for years", you must be heading for 40 years old. A carreer switch at your age into prostitution has to be as dysfunctional as one can get.
I think that I should be clear about what I mean by "dysfunctional". I mean behaviour which is at variance with accepted norms of healthy and beneficial social/family relationships. Dysfunctionality is by definition not good for you at the best of times, however, it is really bad for you when you start to think that it is normal beneficial behaviour.
When I mentioned above about "supporting a habit", I was not thinking so much of drugs or gambling but the more common habit among escorts of shopaholicism. There is serious money spent on underwear, clothes, shoes, handbags, cosmetics, beauty treatments and holidays. I have had escort friends who have had no difficulty getting rid of €20,000 a month! There is no doubt that there is serious money to be made by the good independent girls. The problem is that so little tends to be saved.
I have always thought that prostitution is soul-destroying work and, yes I do have a certain guilt about being a client. I support a girls right to be an escort and a clients right to be a client but I think that it should come with a health warning.
I sometimes think that you can tell the escorts on these boards who have the biggest problem with their circumstances, they are the quickest to anger and paranoia. I put this down to a dscrepancy between what the escort believes herself to be and what she knows herself to be. Living with this dichotomy for long will "wreck your head"
I think that it is fundamental to the happy and healthy enjoyment of life that you are able to earn enough money to live doing a job that you enjoy. It is bad for you to do a job that you do not like because you earn twice as much as you need. I have met many escorts who enjoy a lot of sex and who enjoy the independence and, of course, a lot of money but I have never met one who enjoyed being an escort.

[paulkilkenny]

hi lisa send me your details and we can meet up

[Mioux]

im not going to entertain him anymore by replying to his posts, my intelligence is wasted on him. I think this man is quite dangerous as he gets off on mental stimulation more than physical. and not the good kind of mental stimuation.

i wont meet with you and i'd prefer if you didnt PM me again, about meeting with me or anything else, no matter what amount you offer me.
Thanks DOG.

[jessie]

I do not have much time to look at the website so my posts are irregular and I miss a lot that goes on.
If you have, as you say "three university degrees and top level jobs for years", you must be heading for 40 years old. A carreer switch at your age into prostitution has to be as dysfunctional as one can get.
I think that I should be clear about what I mean by "dysfunctional". I mean behaviour which is at variance with accepted norms of healthy and beneficial social/family relationships. Dysfunctionality is by definition not good for you at the best of times, however, it is really bad for you when you start to think that it is normal beneficial behaviour.
When I mentioned above about "supporting a habit", I was not thinking so much of drugs or gambling but the more common habit among escorts of shopaholicism. There is serious money spent on underwear, clothes, shoes, handbags, cosmetics, beauty treatments and holidays. I have had escort friends who have had no difficulty getting rid of €20,000 a month! There is no doubt that there is serious money to be made by the good independent girls. The problem is that so little tends to be saved.
I have always thought that prostitution is soul-destroying work and, yes I do have a certain guilt about being a client. I support a girls right to be an escort and a clients right to be a client but I think that it should come with a health warning.
I sometimes think that you can tell the escorts on these boards who have the biggest problem with their circumstances, they are the quickest to anger and paranoia. I put this down to a dscrepancy between what the escort believes herself to be and what she knows herself to be. Living with this dichotomy for long will "wreck your head"
I think that it is fundamental to the happy and healthy enjoyment of life that you are able to earn enough money to live doing a job that you enjoy. It is bad for you to do a job that you do not like because you earn twice as much as you need. I have met many escorts who enjoy a lot of sex and who enjoy the independence and, of course, a lot of money but I have never met one who enjoyed being an escort.

Yes I'm running in the late 30's to the 40's. And yes I enjoy my job and being an escort because I choose to do it and to change carrier. It give me freedom, I'm able to see more of the world, I'm able to meet a lot of different people and gain a lot more wisdom and other views in life, I'm able to enjoy good sex and realise all my sexual fantasies, I'm able to earn good money and invest my money in other future projects etc etc And most of all I'm very happy!!!

And no, it's not soul destroying and I don't have paranoia, not in my case anyway. I don't have any habits and also don't spend serious money. I enjoy a healthy mind condition as well physical condition. I do my regular STD checks and carry a STD health card with the results and dates of my latest STD check ups that I can show anybody that ask me for it.

If you see a carrier change into prostitution as dysfunctional I can tell you that you are very very close minded. Prostitution in most countries it concider as a job, at least where I come from it concider to be that. So the only thing I can tell you is try to open your mind and step out of that box. It's a shame to have only one single view on things in life. Also a shame that it seems you met only "dysfunctional" escorts like you said.
Ooh well, I will not waist my time anymore on this subject, don't see why because I see you will never be able to understand it anyway and will always stay in that close minded world.
I wish you good luck and the best in life.
End off!!!!

XXXX Jessie

[he who dares wins]

Yes I'm running in the late 30's to the 40's. And yes I enjoy my job and being an escort because I choose to do it and to change carrier. It give me freedom, I'm able to see more of the world, I'm able to meet a lot of different people and gain a lot more wisdom and other views in life, I'm able to enjoy good sex and realise all my sexual fantasies, I'm able to earn good money and invest my money in other future projects etc etc And most of all I'm very happy!!!

And no, it's not soul destroying and I don't have paranoia, not in my case anyway. I don't have any habits and also don't spend serious money. I enjoy a healthy mind condition as well physical condition. I do my regular STD checks and carry a STD health card with the results and dates of my latest STD check ups that I can show anybody that ask me for it.

If you see a carrier change into prostitution as dysfunctional I can tell you that you are very very close minded. Prostitution in most countries it concider as a job, at least where I come from it concider to be that. So the only thing I can tell you is try to open your mind and step out of that box. It's a shame to have only one single view on things in life. Also a shame that it seems you met only "dysfunctional" escorts like you said.
Ooh well, I will not waist my time anymore on this subject, don't see why because I see you will never be able to understand it anyway and will always stay in that close minded world.
I wish you good luck and the best in life.
End off!!!!

XXXX Jessie

are you calling me disfuctional

[jessie]

Heh heh heh, Yes and especially YOU!

[he who dares wins]

Heh heh heh, Yes and especially YOU!

thanks, you always make me feel so great, welcome back

[jessie]

thanks, you always make me feel so great, welcome back

Yes I know you like to be reminded to be dysfunctional
I'm not back yet, will be soon again