I think technically I did confront the situation when I said in the end and several times though the meeting that I had only agreed to see him after my dinner because he was in my memory as an easy going client. And I did say in the end that if he wanted the circus act it was not what I had understood when I offered him originally the discount. I think that is a confrontation? Yet it flew over his head just like all the other comments I made about the situation.
I think best bet is to just not see him again. He seems to think I'm only good for kinky stuff now and for a bargain basement price.