Any Girl

[Rockerman]

there's a phrase about wrestling with a pig, or playing chess with a pigeon or something like that, that covers this situation, so I'll leave it there.

I know those sayings...so you are a little superior and obnoxious too. I had actually moved on saying "I had given my two cents." and it was you who came back with another comment haha. Anyway we'll leave it there David Feckem. I'm not looking for one-upsmanship here.

[Victoria08]

To be honest with you i have met many ladies and none of them was trafficked. They always were free to do what they want to do. Some of them has even college degree, one was previously bank manager. As far as i am concerned from my own experience its a matter of choice.

[Andrew2800]

Thanks for the reply Andrew. I know I'm not being forced (that would be ironic!) and maybe this isn't for me and I will stop.

I was just wondering what the feeling is within the community to these articles. Or does everyone just have to accept people coming out in the papers demonising all parties (escorts, men, website), and reinforcing the impression in the wider community of a seedy activity where men prey on vulnerable women. The phrase de jour seems to be 'Consent cannot be purchased'.

(and yes, I have been accused several times in the past of being an overthinker - its just my nature!)

I have the same concerns as you (I think you'd have to be a psychopath not to have these worries) but what can we do? I avoid profiles where I get a bad feeling. There is a very attractive, very tempting girl in my location, and even though she allows reviews, it's just a bit too concerning.

So I don't have any easy answers I'm afraid. Look for escorts who are highly regarded on here and think you'll be ok.

[Noregrets]

Giving an escort a lit from Galway to Dublin, or buying her a plan ticket is not trafficking, trafficking is helping a person to get somewhere and basically putting them to work as a slave. I have given an escort a lift from Galway to Dublin as it happens, and am probably guilty of taking advantage of her as I let her buy the coffee

As regards escorts starting their tour in Letterkenny or Tralee, I do not get this, but then I also do not get how immigrants end up in these places in the first place. Yes i get an immigrant arriving in Dublin, but why the fuck would they go to Mayo for example, the only thing I can imagine is that if they are from say Wroclaw well a capital city might not attract them. and they may prefer a smaller city. Again only they can answer that, and I would imagine that their choices could well be influenced by what other escorts post in the escort only section.

Lastly as regards agencies, if a girl decides she wants an agency to provide her with her clients, and save her the hassle of vetting clients, dealing with booking and adverts etc. that is her right and it is up to her to decide if the agency fee is worth the service they provide.

[JAMESCORK]

Independent, Agency and trafficked. This comes up again and again. Over the years I feel I have developed a fairly good knowledge of this industry. I believe the vast majority of ladies working from this site are doing so of their own free will.

I say vast majority because I can not be sure some are not working against their will. But I can tell you, of the nearly 15 years I'm in this game, and after visiting hundreds of girls, and after befriending many punters and escorts alike, I have never heard of anyone coming across a trafficked girl, or a girl that seemed coerced. I don't think has ever been a thread on here, where anyone has had an experience with a coerced girl. If I'm wrong please link it here.

David Feckem is of the old school, an ideology now deceased, that only independent ladies are happy to work in this industry. He is probably a follower of an other website that only supported and advertised truly independent escorts. That site is now gone. Agency or managed girls can, and do, work quite happily even tho they have to pay up a share of their earnings. The fact they cant speak English very well means they NEED this agency to work here at all. A lot of the agency premises are shite, but the girl has the option to move to another agency if she sees fit. She is not handcuffed to the radiator.

[MistressMonique]

I hope your right but let's be honest here... It has been highly documented worldwide that the most valuable commodity in the world is people, I just want everyone to be vigilant human trafficking and modern day slavery exists in every country

That being said have fun, enjoy the beautiful ladies advertising on this site and explore all your naughtiness and kinks with open eyes

[Forceuser]

Read the article. Very bleak form the poor lady involved. Seems to have had some traumatic sexual early in life.
All her comments were very negative about the men. And I know it’s not Pretty Woman but surely she could have been more balanced and maybe spoke about some of the decent men. Now I feel like a right scum bag. Am I a dirty mid life guy lusting after younger women? Am I one of those guys that pay for it? I question myself in what I have become. The thought of a lady suffering from an occupation that I support greatly worried me.
Ladies, if you have suffered by us I’m sorry.

Link to article?

[Andrew2800]

Is there a review of the law soon? Can we expect more anti-male, anti sex work articles?

[Noregrets]

Been honest I haven't read the article and at this stage do not believe much of what I read in the news, when it comes to opinions etc.


For all the talk of girls trafficked into sex in Ireland I would guess the numbers would be very low.

There are millions of people working in slave like conditions in sweat shop factories making the clothes we buy from the major department stores and retailers etc. Where is the uproar over this, the boycott of all companies that source goods from slave like labour practices etc?

The best advice one can give it to treat all humans with respect regardless of what they work at, and do not purchase any goods or services from companies or individuals that use slave labour or allow slave labour to be used by their suppliers.

I won't hold.my breath waiting for people to boycott all these big name companies and brands.

[David Feckem]

David Feckem is of the old school, an ideology now deceased, that only independent ladies are happy to work in this industry. He is probably a follower of an other website that only supported and advertised truly independent escorts.

Where did I once mention happiness on this thread?

You dull witted blowhard.
Rocker said he thought "the vast majority of escorts on this website are definitely independent".
And I let him know I disagreed with that.
Then he jumped to trafficked, like that was the only alternative to independent.

Even at that he didn't specify willingly or unwillingly trafficked. Posters use these terms like trafficked, coerced and not independent interchangeably, and in doing so they end up posting rubbish.

All done with the utmost confidence that they are giving sound advice.

Most of the girls on this site are working for agencies. That was and is my position. I never commented on their happiness to do so.

When I did point out how much more convenient agency work would be for a foreign girl in terms of sorting advertising, and accomodation and some sort of screening and security all around the country Rocker instantly dismissed that premise.
He prefers the fairytale that girls with poor English can easily sort all that for themselves.

You're as bad as him. You read two lines of a post, and then project whatever bullshit is on your mind onto my post, regardless of the actual content.

So when you climb on your soap box again please stay on subject.
Other websites or escorts, whatever.
It's not my fault that the sting of them laughing at your hiding in the bushes spying on punters is still in your head.