Any Girl

[Lighthearted2022]

Sorry to bring up a serious topic on a Sunday, but I've been reading articles about Mia Christinas book in all the papers this weekend. I’m very recent to the scene and (without wanting to bore people with the usual sob-story) joined to try to get that feeling of engagement that is not at home – theres only so many things you can do for so many years years before you have to accept this is your sex life now – 10 mins every second Saturday night but don’t expect any reciprocal touching.

I’ve been lucky with one escort in particular i've visited a few times now who creates such a realistic illusion that I sometimes forget its a business arrangement for her and that I’m not having an affair. However then I read these articles and you can’t help but have even more doubts than already existed – sentences such as ‘everyone knows the majority of girls working are coerced’ or that all girls are there because of sexual trauma in their lives earlier. It does make you pause and seriously consider that you should cease visits and find another outlet for relief.

How does somebody know if a girl is coerced or forced to work? And from the girls side, do you find that guys even care? I've chatted with that one escort about it and she seems happy with her choice, but still.........

From my point of view. I had already decided to give younger girls a miss for other reasons, especially those with poor english, but on reflection I guess I always knew the possibility that some girls are there against their will and I’m just trying to assuage my guilt at entering the world in the first place. Its less likely that a late 20’s or 30’s year old is being forced to work, but then its not beyond the bounds of possibility either.

What do you say to somebody whos looking at this site for the first time – how you do defend your industry against these claims – or is there any defence?

Again, sorry for bringing down the mood!