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    Had a chat about this side of your life with one of your buddies.

    I have a good lot of friends and none of them remotely suspect I have this side of life. And then I have a lot of communication with lads here specially about this fun stuff.

    Maybe it’s good to have that divide. Maybe people that are an open book see it differently

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    Quote Originally Posted by HappyHunter6 View Post
    Had a chat about this side of your life with one of your buddies.

    I have a good lot of friends and none of them remotely suspect I have this side of life. And then I have a lot of communication with lads here specially about this fun stuff.

    Maybe it’s good to have that divide. Maybe people that are an open book see it differently
    I let slip ever so slightly to my best mate when I'd had a few... terrible mistake. Me and his missus get on badly...I am always a little bit worried if he told her she'd blab as she is the dangerous sort. I would be able to deny as I didn't flat out say that I'd been visiting escorts for years, but I think he has an idea. He's no angel either and he genuinely wouldn't look to get me in trouble, but still. My advice is be discreet. I would only feel terrible for my missus...she's a lot nicer than my mate's missus, that's for sure.

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    I’d a similar experience. I said it drunkenly to someone that I would no bother implying that I would rather than I do and they ran away with it. Said it afterwards on Numerous occasions so I always stay on the tight lip side. Although I’d say If lads aka friends were a lot more honest, there would be plenty of people in any group up to the same thing

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    What you do with your own life, its your privacy. As long as you are not hurting anybody else and is enjoying yourself no point for sharing your privacy, only if you want to. In the end of the day is your life to live and no one else business.

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    Its not something I would mention to any of my buddies,

    they tend to disapprove of any thoughts of paying for sexual activity and an other downside is if they think I have money for that, they would be hitting me for lending money,

    keep your own counsel is often a good policy, (I remember feeling really shitty after losing 1000 on horses one day, you know told a guy who doesnt understand gambling and he made me feel ten times lousier,

    Ive enjoyed the lovely ladies I have met through here and prefer to keep that private,


    dont feed your friends one dimensional mindsets, keep them at a distance, but then again thats only my view!
    A dangerous weakness of mine- "an attraction for fast women and slow horses"

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    Keep your private life private

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    Keep it secret. Keep it safe. Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LukeSkyWanker69 View Post
    Keep it secret. Keep it safe. Lol.
    I second that
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    Quote Originally Posted by HappyHunter6 View Post
    Had a chat about this side of your life with one of your buddies.

    I have a good lot of friends and none of them remotely suspect I have this side of life. And then I have a lot of communication with lads here specially about this fun stuff.

    Maybe it’s good to have that divide. Maybe people that are an open book see it differently
    I mentioned it to two friends, one guy is much older and the other is ten years younger than me.

    The younger guy would like to go to an escort with his wife for a threesome but she doesn't want to. She did say he can visit a lady by himself anytime. He also told her what I get up to without my knowledge. I met the two of them out and about one day and she was slagging me about it, she doesn't care. She's German and much more open minded.

    I wouldn't tell 99 % of my friends, most people my own age look down upon punters and escorts. I don't like being judged by folks that don't know anything about the industry.
    We have two lives , the second begins when we realise we only have one .....

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    Think it's best to keep you activity private. Don't confide in anybody, even trusted friends. I confided in a close friend about a fling I had over ten years ago and he told his wife. I wasn't impressed. It's also exciting having a secret life, something to look forward to when the stress at work is getting to you!

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