to be honest the amount of catfishing using the favourites list that i've encountered in the last
while has kinda killed my enthusiasm for visiting much anymore

the thought of the whole rigmarole of checking the ad,checking on the phone if the favs advertised
are really available,verifying in person on arrival that there was no misunderstanding
only for it to become obvious when donations are handed over that they were never an option, all
just makes me feel tired and go "fuck it,i'm just not going to bother!"