Shaking my head sometimes...

[Irelandbeautyyy]

After these last tours i am really thinking a lot about creating this thread...

So let's get to it.

I think it applies to all of us girls. Personally, I have to say that I have been frustrated and demotivated very often these months and I'm just shaking my head...

Gentlemen, do you realize this is business like any other? Is it normal for you to make a call without reading the service that is offered? Is it also normal for you to ask about granting an exception? Is it normal and polite not to come to the appointment without an apology? Would you behave the same in another meeting?

I really thank these who are polite and know what is right…

[AyannaMelek]

I empathize with you, but these things really do happen. To some more often than it looks. A good few will just bother to look at the photos. We would lie to ourselves if everyone who opens up our advert will read it entirely. It’s the male animal instinct. Don’t be let down there are some good nice people out there and you are a lovely lady xxx it’s just a phase. Chin up ❤️

[Joaquim]

I think it applies to all of us girls. Personally, I have to say that I have been frustrated and demotivated very often these months and I'm just shaking my head.
Gentlemen, do you realize this is business like any other? Is it normal for you to make a call without reading the service that is offered? Is it also normal for you to ask about granting an exception? Is it normal and polite not to come to the appointment without an apology? Would you behave the same in another meeting?

I really thank these who are polite and know what is right…

I believe there is a certain mentality with these idiots that just because of the nature of the services you provide that the normal rules of business don't apply. Whether it's a deluded sense of their own importance, macho posturing, a misplaced notion that they are doing you a favour, sheer ignorance and disrespect or a combination of these factors, I just don't know. I can only imagine that your job is difficult enough without these morons making it any more difficult. Their lack of any standard of decent human behaviour speaks volumes for their character.

I understand your frustrations and annoyance but from their behaviour they're probably not people you'd want to meet anyway. They are all pathetic individuals who probably get a perverse kick from what they are doing. It's easy for me to say but please try and not to let them get to you. Remember that you're a far better person than they'll ever be. Hopefully you'll keep faith with those who are polite and know how to behave.

[Tony344]

After these last tours i am really thinking a lot about creating this thread...

So let's get to it.

I think it applies to all of us girls. Personally, I have to say that I have been frustrated and demotivated very often these months and I'm just shaking my head...

Gentlemen, do you realize this is business like any other? Is it normal for you to make a call without reading the service that is offered? Is it also normal for you to ask about granting an exception? Is it normal and polite not to come to the appointment without an apology? Would you behave the same in another meeting?

I really thank these who are polite and know what is right…

Sorry to hear about your recent experiences Michelle you don't deserve it nor does any other girl. I find if you read the profile it only takes two minutes it shows what services are on offer and what isn't. And if your not going make it let the girl know a few hour earlier and be a gentleman and apologise so she can take another booking for that time. Keep your head up Michelle we are lucky to have you here on Escort Ireland.

[lfccork]

Sorry to hear that remember there are a lot of decent guys out there hopefully the good outweigh the bad.

[robbie9]

Unfortunately , this is humanity Michelle!

I really do feel for escorts given you will ultimately meet bad people , sex abusers for example!

i would never cancel an appointment w/o apology & would never be asking for unadvertised favourites.

[TheFalcon]

Yes the escorts actually are really nice girls too in private,

they are all just normal girls really and deserve complete respect like any other business person one meets,

knowing a small few ladies quite well I am suppose I am conscious of that and some of their stories,
if I visit anyone new, I hope that I can put her at ease and we have an enjoyable encounter, just like visiting a private therapist or something. In a way I see them as therapists really rather than escorts.

Yes I suppose always respect the escorts boundaries, is a good thing for newcomers to keep in mind

[Clubcard]

After reading similar posts like this from other girls I'm beginning to think that all men are complete assholes or is it just the vast majority visit or attempt to visit escorts.

Why would anyone book and not show up. Ffs if you're to chicken to follow through or for whatever reason just cancel the appointment. That's common decency.

Favourite lists are just that. It's what the girl in question is comfortable doing and it's not a target. You don't have to tick every box on said list or invent your own list. Appreciate what's on offer and go with that.

[Noregrets]

After these last tours i am really thinking a lot about creating this thread...

So let's get to it.

I think it applies to all of us girls. Personally, I have to say that I have been frustrated and demotivated very often these months and I'm just shaking my head...

Gentlemen, do you realize this is business like any other? Is it normal for you to make a call without reading the service that is offered? Is it also normal for you to ask about granting an exception? Is it normal and polite not to come to the appointment without an apology? Would you behave the same in another meeting?

I really thank these who are polite and know what is right…

Hey Michelle,

Sadly the majority of people today are selfish inconsiderate assholes

Every business has to deal with them, however most businesses probably don't get them as bad as escorts do.

Maybe an idea would be to finish your profile with a code word, telling prospective clients they need to put this in the subject bar of a message or you won't read it and likewise if texting it's to be the first word. Sounds crazy but might weed out those that don't read your profile.

The only bright side is can you imagine been married to such an asshole, that surely would be even worse lol.

[rockonallnite]

Hi Michelle.:

You and I both know that bad people and good people are everywhere. In every walk of life.

You need to learn how to find the good ones and discard the bad ones.
The majority of men,(specially the young ones) they have no codes. They want everything right now.For them It's too much work to read a couple of paragraphs. They just look at the pictures and the price.
The favorites list only exists in their minds.
Maybe you should write the fav. List is that, and if customer wants something else, we'll they should look somewhere else.

Regarding no shows, well, you could charge new clients some sort of a deposit.

In my country there is a girl, that is so popular, that when she takes the booking, she charges x amount as a deposit, (10% or 20 % I think)
Then she gives you the date ( some time 10 days in advance!!) 1 day before meeting she send customer a reminder. If the client doesn't show up, he loose the deposit.
When the appointment goes ahead, at the date that was agreed, she takes the rest of the money.
It might not be the best solution, but it works for her.
No time wasters, only bookings in advance.
If customer wants good service, they have to wait in line...