Shaking my head sometimes...

[Zeus1977]

You must have patience of a Saint I'm guessing Michelle. Don't think it's just your business either think it's in all walks of life.Think its just courteous to text or call a good few hours beforehand if appointment can't be met as things can pop up last minute.Excuse the pun!Then obvs the shelfish idiots just messing you about ,which there's no excuse for but I guess that's life.I try to be courteous and respectful whenever I'm contacting someone,as I know it must be difficult at times.I just think it's how you are raised I think tbh.I do appreciate the girls that are professional in this business, it's tough ,chin up nothing lasts forever. But yes definitely need time for yourself too just to chill and forget about it.Hopefully things pick up for you and Happy Christmas to you.

[MiaX]

I feel you, this is my 2nd tour after a long time. The 1st one went well, but during this one I had so many disrespectful timewasters..you can imagine if I feel it this bad in only two weeks, how bad that is. Where are all the good men?
But I think this is just a phase and when the business is also quiet, we sense these timewasters much more as there is not much else for distraction.
These men will keep exsisting, but luckily there are many more who are nice and respectful, it is a part of our profession.

[rockonallnite]

I think the communication changed in our virtual time, people lost the quality of the communication.

It’s not just the time wasting. I have lot of one way conversation.

I had 2 Misscalls from somebody called without ID caller last evening ( I don’t take booking for no ID caller ) , at the 3rd calls I answered the phone and I asked a text ( to see the phone number ) , of course he sent nothing and called again, I answered and I asked why you didn’t sent a text why do you call me again like this “ because I want to visit you right now, tell me your address “ I was still kindly and I asked a text message again. Bla - bla - bla , talk about the nothing , of course no text to check his number and called again… 5th times I said I am sorry I don’t have any patience and when I don’t have patience I cannot make good service and I don’t want to make a bad one so I closed. & I really closed.

After him ( I turn silence my working phone) somebody sent a text about he is coming today morning for 10. ( I didn’t read my texts until the morning and I didn’t reply ) he arrived on the morning in the city centre and he called me about he is here in 10 min. “ Great”. It’s a typical one way communication, I never answered, I never confirmed and I never sent my address.

You did very well jessica.
An escort, friend of mine, told me years ago, a man booked her for an hour, and after the meeting he stole her money.
You have to be very careful in this business.
References and screening is a must, specially in dodgy areas.
Take care hun.

[dee dee]

This is where It’s vital we report the no shows and time wasters. Any no show or nuisance Texter just block and black list. My advice after many years in this business Is Never Ever answer private numbers. Almost 100% hang up and are not genuine.

[jessicabp]

I worked a lot in Brooklyn and I simple walked home after we closed, I don’t think Ireland is a dangerous country.
The average Irish client is looking for relaxing and not trouble.

Of course I don’t offer “party” service and I don’t share with “party girls”.

You did very well jessica.
An escort, friend of mine, told me years ago, a man booked her for an hour, and after the meeting he stole her money.
You have to be very careful in this business.
References and screening is a must, specially in dodgy areas.
Take care hun.

[Noregrets]

Deposit sounds like good thing for new people but i think that..

- Most of men would not be happy with it.
- How Jess said i also have not capacity for care about deposit. I already have a lot of care about all tour.
- I was talking about deposit with other girl who does it but there are a lot of men who dont care about loss of several tens of euros.

And here we are again, its all about good manners, behaviour and also about self awarness that its business like any other.

I cant believe that somebody will make appoitment somewhere else ( barber, doctor, ...) and will not come at all or at least do not apologize for not coming.

No shows are a massive problem for restaurants also, it is part of the entitlement culture. In my business we used to get a lot of it, but have weeded a lot out, one strike and no more bookings is our policy, unless prepaid in full.

[Gthomas]

Well, i have most of my clients regulars but i still accept new people. Its not about me and my business. This thread is for thinking as a lot of men do that. And i think if girls talk more about it, then some of people realise it and change their manners.

Talks here won't help. This is fast turning world, this is (sorry) Irish national mentality: get in contact and not to answer... Personally myself have millions examples...
My advice to keep better contacts with regulars. Any time I choose (I'm regular, am I?) not necessarily I need that time. Maybe you can ask me about some other time which may suit me and then you can get new person in this time I choose at first. And if new person by any chance decides not to come, you can come back to me with text may I would like to visit you at that your "free" time.
Or maybe in this technological age it is better to make some special messenger/Twitter account get as many your regulars there and inform your movements/plans. Regulars can contact you, make bookings... Free gaps will be for newbies...

[WeeJimmy]

its a society now where people don't give a monkeys

it is what it is and vast majority of clients are not even on here so won't see it or care sadly