Payment

[Johncrain]

I've read that not to pay straight away or something like it's disrespectful and a mood killer 🤣🤣 just like casually do it with an envelope or something??

[enda915]

If the donation has been confirmed prior to the appointment keeping it in an envelope and leaving it on the locker/bed where its visible is a nice touch, just make sure the lady sees it!

[Hagane00]

I've read that not to pay straight away or something like it's disrespectful and a mood killer ���� just like casually do it with an envelope or something??

Of course you should pay straight away.

It is rude to not place the donation on a table or locker when you enter her place and force her to ask you for it.
Don't hand her the money or discuss payment/services, until the apartment door is closed and preferably not until you are in her room.
Don't "negotiate" or "haggle" her prices or services. The price is the price and if she says no to a service, then it's a no!

I always put the donation in a little brown wage envelope, you can get a pack of 50 in easons for about 3 euro.

[Johncrain]

Thanks for the advice , just want to know the ins and outs of the game before I play it

[annabel taylor]

I hate when people act like they forgot to pay nd your made ask for it is mood killer and makes u nervous
Your thinking is he going try for a free serivce
Is he going attack me Rob me is he here just for a free look
Not the best start to any booking
It's sets a nervous energy

I try be polite have you got a present for me and then they show their cock I'm honestly like just leave just go

You know ur paying for it
Why make anyone beg or withhold it

[Clubcard]

I hate when people act like they forgot to pay nd your made ask for it is mood killer and makes u nervous
Your thinking is he going try for a free serivce
Is he going attack me Rob me is he here just for a free look
Not the best start to any booking
It's sets a nervous energy

I try be polite have you got a present for me and then they show their cock I'm honestly like just leave just go

You know ur paying for it
Why make anyone beg or withhold it

In most cases I'm a bag of nerves. Prep in the car before meet.
1.Mouthwash
2.Funds in arse pocket 1
3. Extra funds in arse pocket 2 if needed.
4. Wallet in glove box and empty pockets into cup holder.
5. Wait for direction text
6. Mask on
7. Coffee or whatever in hand
8. Out of car and go ( walk back because you forget to lock it)
9. In the lift double check room no or apt no text put phone on silent.
10. Knock knock
11. Door opens and I catch a glimpse of a boobie.

12. Turn into a blubbering mess and forget what day of the week it even is.

Some guys do genuinely forget, I know I have done so on a few occasions. One time it was a few hours after the meet when I realised. Luckily it was a girl I have met a good few times and was planning to meet in a few days time so it wasn't an issue. She never noticed when I called her to say either.
Just because a guy forgets to pay doesn't mean he's going to rob you. Not all guys are Dicks.

[annabel taylor]

In most cases I'm a bag of nerves. Prep in the car before meet.
1.Mouthwash
2.Funds in arse pocket 1
3. Extra funds in arse pocket 2 if needed.
4. Wallet in glove box and empty pockets into cup holder.
5. Wait for direction text
6. Mask on
7. Coffee or whatever in hand
8. Out of car and go ( walk back because you forget to lock it)
9. In the lift double check room no or apt no text put phone on silent.
10. Knock knock
11. Door opens and I catch a glimpse of a boobie.

12. Turn into a blubbering mess and forget what day of the week it even is.

Some guys do genuinely forget, I know I have done so on a few occasions. One time it was a few hours after the meet when I realised. Luckily it was a girl I have met a good few times and was planning to meet in a few days time so it wasn't an issue. She never noticed when I called her to say either.
Just because a guy forgets to pay doesn't mean he's going to rob you. Not all guys are Dicks.

Again ur forgetting
We are vulnerable leaving strangers into our space
We do everything to limit our dangers
So that kinda behaviour also makes us nervous
Guys boasting how they forgot to pay but was grand i know her doesn't help
It gives another ideas

You have no idea what our side of the door is like
The dangers
U have no idea if someone sent that lady a threat that day now someone coming in with nervous energy forgetting to pay you now your forced to ask

It's really one thing ye should forget
I had ei reviewer many years ago as this shit won't fly now get me answeting the door in panties came in grab tits kissed me and when I went calm down honey he called me a bitch and said all I want is money and left
Like yes mate all I wanted was money off u escort hellooo
Lovely on phone etc

So ya just bloody fecking hand money over asap really no excuses for this

[Benny123]

Again ur forgetting
We are vulnerable leaving strangers into our space
We do everything to limit our dangers
So that kinda behaviour also makes us nervous
Guys boasting how they forgot to pay but was grand i know her doesn't help
It gives another ideas

You have no idea what our side of the door is like
The dangers
U have no idea if someone sent that lady a threat that day now someone coming in with nervous energy forgetting to pay you now your forced to ask

It's really one thing ye should forget
I had ei reviewer many years ago as this shit won't fly now get me answeting the door in panties came in grab tits kissed me and when I went calm down honey he called me a bitch and said all I want is money and left
Like yes mate all I wanted was money off u escort hellooo
Lovely on phone etc

So ya just bloody fecking hand money over asap really no excuses for this

Excellent post. Yes some men are dick heads, full of their own ego. They can't get it into their thick heads that escorts are running a business. Hand over the money when you arrive and stop dreaming that secretly the escort loves you cos she doesn't, all she wants is the agreed fee

[Brooksey86]

Excellent post. Yes some men are dick heads, full of their own ego. They can't get it into their thick heads that escorts are running a business. Hand over the money when you arrive and stop dreaming that secretly the escort loves you cos she doesn't, all she wants is the agreed fee

Agreed it’s a business pay when you arrive

[REMie]

Don’t write cheques you can’t cash, you’ve initiated the appointment and they’ve agreed to meet you. You wouldn’t go on date without your wallet or forget to pay the barman…