To come or not to come, that is the question..

[Mrbean76]

Honestly, I’d rather have one intense experience, a slow build up, lots of touching, kissing and oral, both receiving and giving before the finish, I always book at least an hour so I’m not rushed at any stage, 30 mins meets are not for me, never have been

You're confused, when did I promote a thirty minute appointment?

[TommyH123]

You're confused, when did I promote a thirty minute appointment?

Who said you did?, I was talking about myself

[TommyH123]

I am the same, I never really saw the point of a 30 minute meet. I think I did it once and regretted it. I love the slow and sensual build up, teasing and pleasing and then the final finish... and sometimes the "finish" is just a continuation of the kissing/oral... I don't think I could make it through two rounds in an hour at this stage... but that's not my goal for paying a visit, my goal is to enjoy and not feel rushed at any point... and at the moment an hour is the sweet spot. been thinking about trying a two hour visit but I don't know what I'd fill the time with!?

Exactly, I’ve tried 30 mins in the past but quickly learned that as an experience it was never much better than “meh”, and you’re 100% correct in saying the goal is to have time to savour and experience everything without having to look at your watch, nail on the head

[Mrbean76]

Who said you did?, I was talking about myself

We're both confused so.

[TommyH123]

We're both confused so.

Looks like it, doesn’t it 😀👍

[S94310]

[QUOTE=Stephanie;2390794]Sorry , terrible advice !!

: nothing worse than after having had a wonderful arousing conversation and lead-up

before the shower , only for my man to come to my bed limp and ‘unarousable’ for

a length of time despite the best administrations !

It fe*ks with the mood , fe*ks with the dynamic and is a Huge let down .

Better to just tell your partner that sometimes you may be a bit trigger-happy -

- any established provider worth her salt should be able to prolong and tease

that appointment to the point of you Begging for release !

What a beautiful thing to have my man at ‘attention’ for the length of time I have him ,

to play with him , caress him , kiss and fondle and all beyond ..

Be silly to ruin such pleasure by coming to bed with a limp member