Accidentally went in to a Ts in an Amsterdam window- she slipped out a tiny soft cock and I went straight to it, try to make it hard, like it was second nature- never looked back
Was curious for some time, then I noticed a ts near me with a massage profile and very reasonable rates and I thought maybe I could just go for a massage and see if I got turned on. I never did get that massage. I saw a huge cock at halfmast and I went for it. She fended me off long enough to get a condom on. I hadn't even thought of handing over her fee and only thought of it before leaving.
As a sub, at some stage I realised that very few ladies with a strap on were getting any joy out of it (apart from taking my money) You get a shemale with a hard on and especially if they come then you know that it is giving them pleasure as well. (I remember a Paul Newman film where he was told by his wannebe lover 'If I don't enjoy it then you won't' and I think that is correct). I am now a regular of a trans and I know she gets something out of the session (over and above the money)
Massage is the way to go if curious