Hotel meets > Any other (idea)

[Clubcard]

Love that film. Pity you have to dedicate a whole night to watch it.

[TommyH123]

I'd love to know anyone's experience of being found out..if it deterred them or if they continued to endeavour!

sure you can tell us your experience of being found out next time you return
will it deter you?
will you continue?
bye for now

[Benny123]

I don't like hotels, too many people and staff who know what going on. They may not say anything, but housekeeping staff see everything. I am sure they will clock 50 different men making their way to the same room. If you have to go to a hotel here is some advice if you are interested. It cost someone a lot of money for a trainer to teach me about this, so here it is for free.

I was always told to look as if you are soposed to be there and no one will question you. Michael Collins is still used today as an example in training used today. He was the most wanted man in Ireland, but used to walk around the streets hiding in plain sight. He even asked soldiers who were looking for him, for a light.

Look relaxed, don't draw attention to yourself. The hardest thing is controlling your nerves and trying to control your area. People have something called "leakage", we give ourselves away through body language. Our body language is very hard to control. We communicat 70% by using body language. My problem was always my voice, our vocal cords tighten when we are stressed and are a big tell.

Try not to make eye contact, but if you do just smile naturally and say hi. Try to be a grey man and not rememberable.Wear generic clothing (nothing that stands out).

Attach yourself to people as if you are with them and use them as cover, watch out for cctv. Keep moving and don't stand around looking like a nob, repeating directions at the top of your voice. With that said don't be double timing it, just be normal. There is a thing called "mirrored body language", people copy each others body language. Have open, relaxed body language and people will copy you.

If you are going into hotel for the first time go onto tip advisor or google the hotel pictures to find out as much about the layout of the hotel as you can. Try to find where the reception desk, lifts, loos and bar all are. If you think you are made, just look at your watch and trot into the bar as if you are going for a cheeky drink (but don't over egg it). Its good not to be on your phone, but phones can be a prop too. Pretend to answer your phone casually and say gently "Where are you",with a smile, "I will wait for you in bar".

If you are going to lie, keep it and as close to the truth as possible E.G. choose the name of your grandfather.This way you can easily remember it, Iearn you legend, it can even be fun becoming another person, but keep it dull and boring.

I hope you don't think I am mad, or think, that I think I am James Bond, but I thought that I would share some tips with you. I have walked into to some places in my life, not to meet escorts, but I just needed to blend in at the time. But the trick is always getting back out of them LoL.

What a load of horse manure. You are trying to meet a girl for 30 mins maybe, not planning an assignation of the pope. Your history is also poor because Michael Collins got shot at 31 years of age. So much for blending !!!
I love hotels. You are guaranteed a nice warm bed pleasant ambiance as opposed to a dodgy apartment with nosey neighbors.
I never use the underground carpark and lift to the floor. It's a dead giveaway. Don't you realize that there's cameras on you as you make your way in which follow you to the lift. Someone is watching those cameras and will spot that I entered the building at 7.55 and left at 8.30 and hey presto another single chap arrives at 8.50 and he leaves at 9.30 ish .
I walk into the hotel as if I am a resident, often sit in the foyer and read the paper, might visit the bar if there's champions league action on. All the time I am watching to see where's the stairs, the lift can I access rooms fro the leisure centre etc etc (that's if I don't know the hotel) l always punt in the evening when corridors are generally quiet. All house keeping staff are finished.
But most importantly is the escort
How verified is she with reviews, is she alone, or max with one friend.
If she has no reviews and dodgy profile then don't touch her

[bigmango]

IMHO - The Op is completing over thinking this - making up problems where none exist

[philipkntz]

Some of you advise getting to the hotel early, check out the lifts, bar, stairs ect. My hotel experience is limited but in my experience, escorts don't reveal that they are in a hotel until last minute.

[rockonallnite]

For me its usually an hour before just after confirming.
Regs which is the majority, I'll let know a few days before .

I made the mistake once of giving my hotel info to a client 3 hours before ,
He went early , checking out the venue , got stopped by front desk for sticking out like a sore thumb . I had being watching him thinking , jezz that's an obvious punter ...
Stuttering when asked if he had reservations said he had a appointment with daisy later on
All while I was sitting 2 feet away from the reception desk , almost choking on my coffee .

Unfortunately some clients are not discreet

Luckily I had no issues with that situation

Are you kidding me right?
He said he had an appointment with you? What a clonw !!
And walking in front of Reception desk?! Unreal.
He should write a manual " how not to be discreet while punting in hotels"
I hope you slapped him in the face afterwards to get his ideas straight!! 😂

[sweet Vanes]

I have "better " one. I was staying in a hotel. I always make sure I give the clients good instructions before they enter the hotel and specially where to find the elevator.

While I was waiting in my room for a client, I have got a call from reception. They were informing me I have a visitor. This guy decided to ignore my instructions and he went to ask the receptionist how to get to my room...

[Clubcard]

For me its usually an hour before just after confirming.
Regs which is the majority, I'll let know a few days before .

I made the mistake once of giving my hotel info to a client 3 hours before ,
He went early , checking out the venue , got stopped by front desk for sticking out like a sore thumb . I had being watching him thinking , jezz that's an obvious punter ...
Stuttering when asked if he had reservations said he had a appointment with daisy later on
All while I was sitting 2 feet away from the reception desk , almost choking on my coffee .

Unfortunately some clients are not discreet

Luckily I had no issues with that situation

Facepalm emoji was created for this guy.

[TommyH123]

Facepalm emoji was created for this guy.

It’s a special kind of stupid alright
common sense is in short supply
with some guys I guess

[Joelegs]

mmm, "the Big Fellow" was shot during the Irish Civil War, on a lonely road on his way from Crork, by anti-Treaty forces, not by the British Army. Collins was the first to use cell structures and he is still taught in counter-terrorism training to this day.Perhaps it isn't my History that is bad.

I think all your advice for blending in is spot on, but I was only trying to help people who struggle with nerves. People can spot nerves in our body language that gives us away when we lie, or are doing something of a stressful nature. I did mention that I was not visiting escorts, my work used to involve meeting people in inhospitable places.

By the way, I would have no interition of slotting the pope. I think he is a lovely man. However, I was in the Vatican once, it never entered my mind once.