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[passionfruit]

My tuppence-worth on this debate is that I agree it is difficult to find someone who gives a top-notch massage with lots of extras. I know there's a mixture of people who contribute to the Massage forum: ranging from those that are going for the 'shimmer of possibilty' that something might happen and those that are going more for the extras than the massage. I am personally veering towards the second camp.

I like to be a little more certain what I might get when I part with my cash. While I do appreciate a really good massage, I would trade a little on the quality of the massage for a really good body-to-body, with maybe some extras. I find it is hard to get a really good body-to-body. Many providers I have went to think that being topless and allowing the punter to touch is a body-to-body massage. What I appreciate more than anything during an erotic massage is the touch of a woman's body on mine, and being able to touch and caress her too. There are some notable exceptions, but I mostly avoid escorts who also advertise as massage providers too (that said, and in fairness, the some of the exceptions to my general rule have been truly exceptional ).

I have had some rubbish experiences in my time. Quick jobs, splashed with baby-oil, and where I have no sooner lay on the bed or table and my poor little warrior is being rubbed with a ferocity that would nearly create sparks. My worst experience had was where I was told to spin over for the HE after about 5 mins and I was given it with just her thumb and fore-finger (don't try it lads, it hurts like hell!). I remember going to a another place (now closed thankfully) where I was told to wait in a room with three or four other punters and I was given a list with the prices and then talked through the extras. There was a younger guy there, clearly his first time, and the ground nearly opened up and swallowed him whole when he was being talked through the options in the waiting room, with a couple of other grizzly auld veterans like myself listening in. BTW, the massage was forgettable too. I agree also with some other comments that the masseuse moaning along is really a big turn-off.

But there are some true gems out there and I love looking for them.

[wazzy]

My experiences over the years vary greatly but I do remember my first ever massage with extras and it's still is one of my fondest memories, the thought of not knowing what's going to happen is the best, the masseuses fingers getting closer to the family jewels was electrifying. But in more recent times I'm tending to go somewhere I'm guaranteed relief , although thing's like eye contact and mutual touching or even a 69 during the finish do heighten the experience for me .

[eloscar]

Thanks lads, it's great that most of you actually agree with me. So the normal people who are recommending absolute rubbish haven't commented. I'm not trying to ruin anyone's business or reputation but we need to be realistic and this site has basically very few real therapists but alot of rubbers and tuggers. So let's see if anyone like the Big man who goes etc give us there 3 cents worth

[Lovelylicker99]

While I enjoy the anticipation of will she won't she as regards extras I do like a good massage and building up a rapport with the masseuse. There are those who have told me straight up there is nothing extra available but I keep returning because of the massage there are those who do the accidental brush off where I wait for them to suggest something extra and then there are times I ask at the start...it has become more expensive IMO. These days I tend to visit escorts more. But I still like my massage and the anticipation of something wonderful about to happen. I will keep searching as long as I have the few pounds in my pocket, the search for perfection continues 😜

[bigmango]

Thanks lads, it's great that most of you actually agree with me. So the normal people who are recommending absolute rubbish haven't commented. I'm not trying to ruin anyone's business or reputation but we need to be realistic and this site has basically very few real therapists but alot of rubbers and tuggers. So let's see if anyone like the Big man who goes etc give us there 3 cents worth

I would not argue with anything that has been said on this thread -

Never met anyone who advertises on here more than once for their massage skills - have in the past met someone on here again because I just like their company - they are a joy to be with - anything that happened was secondary.

My experiences are all pre Covid-19

IMHO - This life & Covid-19 are not compatible

[eloscar]

I'm not sure how someone can be a joy to be with when they have there back to you while giving you a basic tug. However the point is that the massage skills are very poor. Some girls even have certs in the wall which they must have bought from the pound shop or printed them off a Google advert

[samsonxx123]

Pardon the pun, but who yanked your chain,
It's highly unlikely you'll get a decent massage from any of the rub and tug shops
It's just marketing, the veneer of legitimacy
If your going to one expecting it, your going to be disappointed

[Highhopes]

Have to agree here dude, the odd time u will find a masseuse that can actually massage 😂, is hot, has a good personality, and is a little naughty and spicy, and will actually enjoy you’re company for real. If you visit every place in Dublin this may happen for you once, maybe.
99% of the time is a smash and grab attitude by the girls and their boss, and they have a right laugh after you leave with light pockets 😂😂.
That’s a fact guys. I know this 100%. I ain’t the old bill, and I don’t own a shop, ok?The foreign national girls can’t actually believe how stupid paddy is!! And how easy they empty their pockets . A lot of them would never have contemplated doing this work in their home country. But when they see the money that we throw at them here?? It’s irresistible to them.
So no, most are not masseuse, probably only ever gave their pet dog a rub before!!!
They actually suss us out as we walk in the door.. nervous type, embarrassed ,, cha Ching!! 💸 💸. Promise the world, show a nipple finished ✔️. Next please.
Guys it’s all a game, 90% the time you would be better off at home with palm and the five sisters. My experience and honest opinion.
I don’t mean to disrespect anyone. But it’s the truth. I know it’s a bit of a buzz, but you kinda always have to think before you go that you are going to be shafted. That it’s not going to be the same person as the ad, you won’t get a good massage, that you will pay more than you intended to……..
Ps.. I get a great buzz when I see the cert framed and hanging on the wall.😂👏

[Cockmaster137]

Pardon the pun, but who yanked your chain,
It's highly unlikely you'll get a decent massage from any of the rub and tug shops
It's just marketing, the veneer of legitimacy
If your going to one expecting it, your going to be disappointed

100% agree.Massage parlor is more than getting an actual massage.Otherwise physiotherapists are what you’re look for.For me,getting a massage is between going to escorts and physiotherapists.So I don’t expect the standards from both from just getting a massage.I totally agreed most of the places are a rip off.So I won’t go back.Just as simple as that!But sometimes I do find 1-2 decent ones.Then I will stick with it.But I can’t see the point of moaning about massage parlor’s going down hill and started to talk about the massage from years ago.I had my very first massage 15 years.I couldn’t see the standards were so much better than now.Maybe less of a rip off.That’s the only difference I can say.

[lifestoogoodjim]

My experience is close to Ireland's second city. The choice is quite poor in this part of the world with mostly Thai parlours all doing the same old same old.
I saw an advertisement for massage, so I made an appointment and got on the couch. She covered me with a heavy towel and gave a great massage. She didn't touch anything but I swear that I could feel the hair on her hand, she was that close. She asked me to turn over and, on with the heavy towel again. No matter how much I forced the muscle I couldn't shift the towel. The massage finished and I asked her if she did extras and she said no - Massage only.
I reflected for a bit and after 3 weeks I made another appointment. This time I decided to just relax and enjoy the massage, which I did and she was very good. I made a couple more appointments and sometimes it was a bit more sensual but still no touching. Then one very warm evening I said, can we do this without the towel and, she said fine. I turned over and the muscle didn't let me down, but she never came close and eventually droop set in.
I went another 6 or 7 times, sometimes towel on, sometimes towel off but always a great massage. Then I didn't go for awhile due to work relocation and next time I went she said, I now do extras and this is the price. I said great, lets go for it. Towel off, great massage and HE finish. I go to her regularly and each time she reveals a bit more and whilst the massage is now very sensual, it is not a great massage anymore.
I love massage, I love the touch and especially I love the anticipation but I've no desire to have planned full service. I've had unplanned full service and it was amazing but not what I went there for.
On my last visit to this regular girl we just stopped short, and now I'm undecided if or not I'll go back. It was very uncomplicated but now there's too much expectation.
I guess my advice is to have a pool of good places to go and avoid being a regular or being predictable.