Fascinating

[passionfruit]

My tuppence-worth on this debate is that I agree it is difficult to find someone who gives a top-notch massage with lots of extras. I know there's a mixture of people who contribute to the Massage forum: ranging from those that are going for the 'shimmer of possibilty' that something might happen and those that are going more for the extras than the massage. I am personally veering towards the second camp.

I like to be a little more certain what I might get when I part with my cash. While I do appreciate a really good massage, I would trade a little on the quality of the massage for a really good body-to-body, with maybe some extras. I find it is hard to get a really good body-to-body. Many providers I have went to think that being topless and allowing the punter to touch is a body-to-body massage. What I appreciate more than anything during an erotic massage is the touch of a woman's body on mine, and being able to touch and caress her too. There are some notable exceptions, but I mostly avoid escorts who also advertise as massage providers too (that said, and in fairness, the some of the exceptions to my general rule have been truly exceptional ).

I have had some rubbish experiences in my time. Quick jobs, splashed with baby-oil, and where I have no sooner lay on the bed or table and my poor little warrior is being rubbed with a ferocity that would nearly create sparks. My worst experience had was where I was told to spin over for the HE after about 5 mins and I was given it with just her thumb and fore-finger (don't try it lads, it hurts like hell!). I remember going to a another place (now closed thankfully) where I was told to wait in a room with three or four other punters and I was given a list with the prices and then talked through the extras. There was a younger guy there, clearly his first time, and the ground nearly opened up and swallowed him whole when he was being talked through the options in the waiting room, with a couple of other grizzly auld veterans like myself listening in. BTW, the massage was forgettable too. I agree also with some other comments that the masseuse moaning along is really a big turn-off.

But there are some true gems out there and I love looking for them.