FullIrish (27-05-21)
I think it depends. Obviously no relationship is ever the same, and I think every relationship will have things that put strain on it, either internal or external forces. Dating someone working in the sex industry is obviously an unusual hurdle and I would say for most, probably too big a hurdle to handle for an extended period of time.
The replies you'd get here are all from people with at least a basic understanding of sex work, so you might have some more open minds and relaxed attitudes towards the whole thing. But I reckon most who haven’t dipped their toes into this world might not be so open minded, as they might not be so open minded about a lot of things in life.
However, I do think some can make it work. And I absolutely think real love, can be shared between two people, even if one is a sex worker, love has many different forms and can be shared in many different ways, it's not all Hallmark and fairy tales out there in the real world.
For me personally it would for sure be difficult if my wife/girlfriend was working as an escort. The best sex for me is sex where it's not just physical, the "connection" between me and whoever I'm with is important, and I try to have that "connection" with whoever I'm with, including escorts, even if it's only for a short time. And whatever people might say about sex just being physical, it's not just that for me. There is always an emotional aspect to it. So it would take a toll on me if my partner was having lots of sex with other men on the regular, I'd probably start to feel like she isn't dedicating herself to the relationship in the same way I am. It might work for a while, but I think it would ware on me in time and some resentment might build.
The only way it might work I think is if the person I'm with has a clear target in mind, a goal she is working towards, and has a plan to eventually stop escorting. It's a fine job and a worthwhile one, but like many jobs out there that are demanding and intense, it's a difficult one to do for life, and having an exit plan would be the only thing that would keep me sane if I was dating an escort.
Thanks for sharing your point of view Michelle. Always interesting to see others thoughts and ideas about scenarios like this, it would be a boring world if we all had the same opinions on everything.
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FullIrish (27-05-21)
Yes ;need to understand i dont fall in love with customer i offer sex not relationship .What i do in my life its only my business .Any escort still can have relationship or married ;this is a job ;you are not my love .
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