Advice for the first punt

[arealgent]

Respect the Escorts is the biggest group on here, because it is the only way to be. Basically the nicer you are to the escort, the more relaxed they will be with you, the better time you will have

What that means for me...

Arrive on time
Be as clean as you can - for example make sure your finger nails are well trimmed back and clean
Be quiet and don't draw attention to yourself around the location, particularly near the entrance door to the apartment / hotel room itself
A lot of Escorts will stand behind the door when they open it, so just step inside and wait for them to close it
Let the escort lead you quietly to the bedroom and out to the shower (always a plus when the escort shows you how the shower works... amazing how many variations there are and how freezing/scalding they can be!)

Smile / laugh / say hello / tell them your name or nickname if you prefer. Relax and get a sense of each other
Tell them what you like and how you are.... be honest - for example, I am prone to premature ejaculation and I say so; the best ladies then take everything nice and slow. (one watchout - don't ask for things that are not on their favourites list - not good)

Let the escort take the lead physically and follow her cues. (If you become a regular you can take the lead more, but first time you are getting to know each other.) The experienced escort knows what they are doing. Be gentle
Let the escort know what you are enjoying and what you are not. Don't be afraid to stop doing something that isn't working for you (Prostrate massage... not for me!)
Remember to breathe!

After the event, a massage may be offered, which is a perfect way to relax. If you want to shower before you leave, tell the escort as the massage starts
When the massage stops, it's time to hop in the shower and /or get dressed.

Check you have all your belongings before you leave - very embarrassing to have to go back for your car keys!
Whilst it's not the done thing to overstay your time, it is great to take a few moments to say goodbye properly and let the escort know how good you feel.

I often send a text after as well to say how much I have enjoyed my time with them.

Hope that's not too preachy!

[DaithiOh]

Good advice !

[Untamed]

Firstly pick a girl you fancy straight off, ensure she has plenty of good reviews. Read through them all to see the general style of things, you'll be surprised what is revealed here and there which might excite you more. When you decide just make the call. Be prepared tho as she won't give her address over the phone usually but tell you the general area and to phone again when you're generally outside, she might text. I found this odd at the start but it's the way. Have the cash handy, volume off the phone and enjoy.

[Brianindublin]

Respect the women. Like in real life sexual encounters, not every person you meet is going to blow your mind. Don't dwell on it if you don't click-there's plenty of other amazing women on here to try and make a better connection with. But the more chilled out, relaxed and respectful you are the better time you will have.

Read reviews, choose carefully. Talk to her if there's something specific you want-don't be shy, you can be sure she's heard it before. Pay a little extra if she meets what you're looking for-you're worth it! While there are some amazing women charging the more reasonable rates, that's fine if you only want a quickie. She needs higher turn over of clients, so the more you pay the better, more personal service you will receive.

When you're on the phone, don't repeat the apartment number loudly for all the neighbours to hear which apartment has the escort in it. Enter calmly, not all nervous looking. Be confident and nobody will think you look out of place. You will start to get to know your way around the usual apartment buildings after a while, but don't worry if you get lost. Just don't scare the locals by looking suspicious.

Once you enter, even though she's asking you politely if you'd like a shower, she's not really asking! You're probably drenched in nervous sweat, so take the shower! Wash carefully, especially your balls and ass! How much scrubbing would you do if you were to suck it, that's how clean it needs to be.

Get the money out of the way first, I like to agree any special requests or extras on the phone first, then I have the exact money in an unsealed envelope. I usually leave my wallet in the car, though I know it's a bit paranoid, it means I don't have to think about anything other than what's about to come. Remember, she's not a mind reader. You can just trust her, you'll have a great time-but if there's specific fantasies you have, ask her in advance, don't be expecting her to know things like that you actually were expecting to see her dressed in that leather outfit from her pictures. It's probably in the bag, and she's wearing the lingerie!

When she gives you the hint, it's time to go. Do not overstay. It's a business transaction, she's not your new gf! If you shower after, leave the bathroom clean-no wet footprints everywhere!

Leave the building discreetly, but don't look suspicious. Confidence and look like you totally belong and nobody will look twice. If you meet another guy coming up, avoid the temptation to tell him he's in for a good time. Maybe he lives nextdoor......

If you enjoy your time, leave a fair review. If she did something totally crazy to upset you, and it really was totally unfair and unreasonable, and in no way causes by any behavior on your part, maybe it's ok to leave a bad review. But if there was just not much of a connection, that can happen. Accept it, and don't go back. Don't leave a scathing review-you're gonna have amazing experiences, but there's also gonna be mediocre times. Just move on, save up and try another!

[oldfool]

I had to go looking for this as i posted it in February 2017 and a few people said it was worth reading.

Advise re first timer has been answered several times and I would suggest you check prior entries and blogs.

In brief decide on the type of girl and the favourites you must have. Read the profile several times then read reviews several times. Choose a lady who allows reviews and has a good track record. Some say they welcome newbies.
When you have chosen, phone the lady as PM is a waste of time for newbies. Be polite and suggest date and time. Normally no more than one day ahead. This is a business call so keep it brief and to the point. Now is definetly NOT the time to read out favourites or ask questions answered on the profile. I make one exception to this telling the lady that French kissing is a must (Sometimes i am too nervous to say that)

If you are nervous ( there will always be some) tell her you are new. (She will have worked it out anyway) I am still nervous, even ringing a regular.

Clarify anything and if a favourite is really important tell her. If a favourite is not listed it's not there and unlikely to be.

The lady will agree time and will ask you to phone about 15 minutes before meet for final directions.
Prepare for meet by having shower beforehand and clean your teeth.
Be on time or one or two minutes before, not 30 minutes before hanging around looking odd.
When making the final call, please be discrete, not the lobby of the hotel for example.

When you enter the room get the formalities and contribution out of the way.
If asked to shower do so. It is not really a request but an instruction.

Let the lady lead at first. Remember the more respect you give the better the encounter.
When time is up then leave. If you have not finished you can ask to extend, at the published rates, but she may not be able to accomodate.
You have paid for time and companionship, nothing else.

Make sure you get a burner phone to avoid complications.

I am sure I forgot other maters but others can add.
Warning this is addictive and can be expensive but it is incredible

[tajizzer]

As a virgin in his thirties thinking of using an escort, this is a goldmine. Would it be possible to get this stickied so us newbies can find it easier nad save the regulars the headache of answering the same questions over and over?

Many thanks

[MidlifeCrisis]

Sent this recently to a newbie wanting to know where to start:


- When looking for an escort, choose location, then click the Filters button, and select "Verified photos" and "Allows reviews". Ads that you have filtered out are probably not worth the risk.

- Do plenty of research. Lots of people give mostly favourable reviews, but if you read a lot of them, you sometimes get a sense that a lady is genuinely delighting her clients. I strongly suggest that your early visits should be with ladies with lots of good reviews, even if that stretches your budget. They will put you at your ease and you are pretty much guaranteed a good time.

- Read the profile carefully. There are sometimes specific requests about how they wish to be contacted. The "Favourites" list gives an idea of what they may be happy to do. Don't assume that you can do everything there - I suggest asking before kissing them, or initiating anything imtimate. For early appointments, it may be best to just let them take the lead - if you let them run the appointment their own way, you will probably have a brilliant time.

- Definitely get a "punting phone" - a cheap PAYG one bought for cash, and vouchers bought for cash, so there is no link to you. That takes away a whole area of possible risk, and the only challenge is keeping the phone somewhere private.

- Phone first when asking for an appointment - many girls ignore texts and PMs if they do not know the client.

- Be polite, clear and to the point. A short compliment on their profile, followed by a request for an appointment, and the rough times that suit you. Calls like "are you available now", or trying to strike up a chat, will not go down well.

- If they offer you a time, listen carefully to any instructions they give you - not always easy, as many girls have accents. They often ask you to confirm by text 20 or 30 minutes before - if they don't ask, tell them that you will confirm by text, and do so. It increases your chance that they will hold the appointment and see you.

- The most important advice of all is about hygiene. Prepare yourself as if you were going on a first date with a girlfriend and hoping to get lucky. Clean carefully everywhere, including toothbrushing and mouthwash. Good escorts will offer you a shower when you arrive. You should say yes, even if you are straight out of the shower. If there is mouthwash in the bathroom, use it. They are much more likely to give you a great time.

- When you arrive and call them, a couple of minutes before the booked time, they sometimes tell you to call again from a particular place. This is sometimes so that they can get a look at you before giving you the full address. When you arrive at the door of the place, they normally stay behind the door while you come in - this is to stop them being seen from outside - feels a bit odd, but just walk in.

- The more polite and respectful you are throughout, the better the time you will have.

- Try to relax, smile and be friendly (can be easier said than done). I am naturally shy, but good escorts will sense any nervousness and are experts at helping you get going.

Good luck.

[2bornot2b]

Be nice
Be clean
Be on time

And just be in the moment and everything will be alright.

Treat it like a perfect date and it will flow.

[Johnnybegood1]

Don't wank too much before your first booking..don't wank too little.
Also don't wank to close to the time or don't wank to early. Wank enough so you don't blow your load to quick however don't wank too much or it will be like a lawnmower chord.

[2bornot2b]

Don't wank too much before your first booking..don't wank too little.
Also don't wank to close to the time or don't wank to early. Wank enough so you don't blow your load to quick however don't wank too much or it will be like a lawnmower chord.

Not into gardening, what does that mean….
Hat is a chord