What is sex?

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Sex is a hard topic to nail down. In blokes friends circles it is often only in referred to in a piss take manner. I would think a high percentage of males can't discuss sex in an open and honest manner, even with their partners let alone another male. We know it's a bit of an off (I was going to say taboo but a bit strong perhaps) topic in polite society. So when asked 'how are you today?' we don't say 'horney as fuck!' and we talk about the weather or sport and you may go so far as to say (to a mate) 'banged the missus last night so feeling a bit lighter today thanks.' But in day to day conversation its kept in the dark.

So sex to me, and I'm encompassing all the different types of sex when I say sex, is something the majority of adults in the world probably enjoy, even if only for procreation and find necessary to their happiness. But it's a topic that we feel afraid of discussing openly. Probably for good reason, could you imagine the poor females if it was an open discussion topic!

It is a shame that so many do find it difficult to discuss sex openly though and I was one of them, for the most part of my younger existence I'd of been extremely embarrassed if a female or even a mate had tried to talk about sex with me! Nowadays, we'd probably have to set aside some quality time to get through everything we'd like to talk about.

All of the above is from a 1st world westerners point of view of course, I don't know how it is discussed or percieved on many other parts of the planet and religions are going to put their stamp on it as well. I think in Scandinavian counties they are better at talking about it than us?

I also think it is everthing Roddy Mc said as well, except for the god bit, no question mark needed for me.

I agree completely, and that is why it is important to make use of this forum to discuss these matters anonymously and sympathetically.

It looks like you too are in the instrumentalist camp, sex leads to something more desirable than the sex itself, whether for procreation or pleasure. It's a great answer.

There's certainly nothing to be embarrassed about here, and I will continue to probe () the community to see how others view sex and related topics, without judgment.

Thanks for your answer.