Unprotected Sex

[Sam Spade]

Sorry if above reply seems harsh, its just that I feel sex has to have mutual consent, that is, it is up to both parties to agree to to sex, otherwise it is simply rape.

If you agree to sex you have to accept the consequences of your actions.
Unless it is a long-term relationship, you must use protection at all times.

Sorry if I sound to be preaching, I don't mean too, your question just got too me.

[paulflittle]

You should name and shame. If an escort is having bareback sex it is a risk to us all.

[Banjo]

I'm shocked but yet I'm not at reading this thread.

I'm shocked that someone would expose themselves to the risk of contracting an STD like this. You really would need to be insane or off your head to do such a thing.

I'm not shocked by the fact that it can happen however. I think anyone who thinks they're safe in the knowledge that this does not happen needs to think again. It's bound to be happening out there and most of it will go unreported. For whatever reason - be it pure passion, revenge, carelessness, being off ones head on drugs - it's going to happen. And it's up to every girl and punter to ensure that the maximum of precautions are mutually taken. Someone on here said they would presume the girl (or professional) would ensure precautions are taken ..... this is not enough in my opinion. Both girl and punter are responsible. I would never put the safeguarding of my own health and life in someone elses hands .... that's form me to look out for.

@Anna23 - well said all the way babe. I'm glad to see someone from the girls side comes out and takes a stand on this. xx

[uglynakedguy]

i had a full hiv test a fortnight ago and got the all clear a few days ago , i was worried about the fact that i had unprotected ORAL with an african escort a year ago , i only visit escorts about half a dozen times per year but ive decided that im not going to have intercourse from now on and will only recieve oral and with protection , its possible to enjoy the experience without choosing everything thats on offer , i know thats quite strange but its a win win as far as i see it , i dont believe that escorts enjoy what they do so the less services they have to provide for a punter , the better IMO

[monster_monster]

i had a full hiv test a fortnight ago and got the all clear a few days ago , i was worried about the fact that i had unprotected ORAL with an african escort a year ago , i only visit escorts about half a dozen times per year but ive decided that im not going to have intercourse from now on and will only recieve oral and with protection , its possible to enjoy the experience without choosing everything thats on offer , i know thats quite strange but its a win win as far as i see it , i dont believe that escorts enjoy what they do so the less services they have to provide for a punter , the better IMO

if you were worried about a deed you did a year ago you should got tested then and not four weeks ago, i see from your reviews that you continued to punt during the year so you obviously had no regard for the girls you met

[rubberlover]

I am gobsmacked at such lunacy.

Any guy who has or requests bareback should be committed to a bad client list (within the escort community ie the girls, and contact details made available to them either mobile or IP address so they can refuse to see or have anything to do with these morons or equally advise each other of these guys). I have found in my punting experience that escorts (I have visited) are always careful about safe sex and if I were to meet an escort who displayed any sign of not engaging in such a manner I would be out the door. You only get one swing on the roundabout of life so don't take risks re your health. It’s about mutual respect. As I have said in the past we punters have a duty of care to the girls we meet and am sure the majority of professional escorts have the same for us and importantly for themselves. It’s a no brainer, if you going to have penetrative sex, you MUST WEAR A CONDOM. No ifs or buts.

[Sexy_Jessica]

Don´t understand my question wrong, i don´t provide unrotected sex at all (not even CIM), just though about porn stars and unprotected sex in the movies.

Would you have unprotected sex with an escort if BOTH show a test for different diseases, not older than 1week?

I hear this question often in Austria as there are working girls weekly controlled and clients know it and ask oft this question.

How do you see it guys in IE???

[Banjo]

Would you have unprotected sex with an escort if BOTH show a test for different diseases, not older than 1week?

No. It takes one encounter to contract an STD, and why could that encounter not have happened in the last week since the test was taken ?

[paulflittle]

I am gobsmacked at such lunacy.

Any guy who has or requests bareback should be committed to a bad client list (within the escort community ie the girls, and contact details made available to them either mobile or IP address so they can refuse to see or have anything to do with these morons or equally advise each other of these guys). I have found in my punting experience that escorts (I have visited) are always careful about safe sex and if I were to meet an escort who displayed any sign of not engaging in such a manner I would be out the door. You only get one swing on the roundabout of life so don't take risks re your health. It’s about mutual respect. As I have said in the past we punters have a duty of care to the girls we meet and am sure the majority of professional escorts have the same for us and importantly for themselves. It’s a no brainer, if you going to have penetrative sex, you MUST WEAR A CONDOM. No ifs or buts.

The easy solution is just make sure you always wear a condom.

[bigpaul]

Guys and girls this is an issue close to my heart, you must be careful about the people you meet, i always check the girls i visit on aduldwork to see if they offer bareback or fullservice which is a term which seems to mean anything goes. You must especially check the uk location as the amount of girls offering this is enormous. This i think is the best i can do and make my meetings safer. Girls you i think are better at protecting yourselves than us guys and you must continue to do whatever you have to, to ensure the safety of yourselves, your clients and the wider population of girls and clients.

So Guys lets be positive in this time of doom and gloom and only visit girls that have a positive view to safe sex and girls only take clients that have a similar attitude as youself.

remember this is supposed to be fun and safe

BigPaul