Question for Management

[philipkntz]

You're right about that, but it was just an example.

The bottom line Phillip is that if Marcus or anybody else with red bars tries to message an escort who *does* let a man's reputation bar dictate whether they're going to meet in real life, it's unfair that they're being denied the ride of their life just because eight months earlier they said King was nicer than Tayto and somebody with a lot of clout disagreed and destroyed his reputation forever.

I notice your bars go up and down so obviously you are picking up some positive rep too. Why doesn't anybody complain about positive rep?
Now I may be wrong on this but going by my experience on another forum. I think red bars have equal clout as green bars and you seen quite good at collecting them. If someone pumps your rep enough you could possibly take them down a peg or 2.
Or you could stop whineing about your rep and someone with a bit of clout might give you a few green bars again.

[Eagle87]

For example eagle87 I see has a lot of red bars , mainly because he’s opinated
And gets his knickers in a twist often . It’s clear he’s harmless.
TommyH123 on the other hand is more strategic . He’ll build up green bars again and a few
Reviews for himself until he starts acting out again and gets banned again & again.
Rinse repeat.

Harmless isn't even the right word Daisy.

This whole thing quite literally started because I wrote a drunken post about pink gin and asking a girl out. And now, to the untrained eye, it could very easily look like I'm the most unpleasant person on this entire website, which is a load of shite because I've seen a lot of men here write some pretty horrible things about escorts - both escorts who do and don't use the forum - and either nobody thought they deserved negative rep or they have too much positive rep, to the point where it's impossible to put them in the red, where they belong.

Either way, the reputation bar can and does protect the scumbags and hang the gents. I'm not saying there isn't good men with good rep and bad men with bad rep, but if you can get a horrible reputation for talking about asking a girl out, or criticising Robbie [the same Robbie who told Casey that she looked twice her age last month, by the way] in an interview like Marcus did, then really, what's the point of it?

[Eagle87]

Welcome back for more “porn”
Hope you’ve been out there saving that million for the bet

If you're saying what I think you are, no the lockdown was announced like a week later so I only had about €11 euro on the bet when I cashed in.

[Lisa007]

If you're saying what I think you are, no the lockdown was announced like a week later so I only had about €11 euro on the bet when I cashed in.

“I'd bet a million euro that Lisa has been banned in the past as well”
I’m talking about this
Assuming you were talking about me.

[Eagle87]

“I'd bet a million euro that Lisa has been banned in the past as well”
I’m talking about this
Assuming you were talking about me.

Oh right haha. Let's ignore what I was talking about. But no I put my reputation on the bet instead and it didn't go well so I assumed I got it wrong

[ORDINARYJOE]

" Eagle87 you will get the ride of your life someday , just maybe not
Here ❤️
And TommyH123 this place is not for you , after 20 attempts you should realise
This .

As goat boy says Slan A"

Eagle lad you missed the main point
She said maybe
You're in there bud

[Not Tyler Durden]

Harmless isn't even the right word Daisy.

This whole thing quite literally started because I wrote a drunken post about pink gin and asking a girl out. And now, to the untrained eye, it could very easily look like I'm the most unpleasant person on this entire website, which is a load of shite because I've seen a lot of men here write some pretty horrible things about escorts - both escorts who do and don't use the forum - and either nobody thought they deserved negative rep or they have too much positive rep, to the point where it's impossible to put them in the red, where they belong.

Either way, the reputation bar can and does protect the scumbags and hang the gents. I'm not saying there isn't good men with good rep and bad men with bad rep, but if you can get a horrible reputation for talking about asking a girl out, or criticising Robbie [the same Robbie who told Casey that she looked twice her age last month, by the way] in an interview like Marcus did, then really, what's the point of it?

This may sound harsh, but it's for your own good. Just stop with your obsession with red bars. No one of any consequence gives a shit about them.

This is the vibe you are currently giving off: the "nice guy, fedora vibe"








"Nice" because he wants something from a woman, i.e. attention, or affection. As soon as he realises that's not forthcoming, he quickly becomes a resentful asshole, saying that women are dumb because they chase assholes and ignore "nice guys" like him.

They don't seem to realise that you have to bring a bit more to the table than being "nice"
Be funny, or charming, or interesting, or good looking, or passionate about something, or a good listener, or hopefully a mix of a few things. Don't be a creepy needy "nice guy" In real life you probably aren't, just, this is the current vibe you are projecting.

Some of your posts have been funny, you should go back to that.


Red bars don't matter. If you want to meet an escort, make a phone call and be polite. That's how simple it is.
If you want to meet a woman in real life, red bars and green bars on an escort forum aren't going to impress her.

[Eagle87]

You're wrong Tyler Durden. You're wrong about the entire thing but you're particularly wrong about there being an obsession with red bars. This isn't my thread. I've never started a discussion about reputation. There was a thread about green bars back in August [LINK] - when I had plenty of green bars - and here's what I said:

It's a visual representation of your reputation I think Gthomas. I'd guess it was probably put up for escorts to warn other escorts of potential wankers, but the salty lads just nicked it and started using it to sabotage people they don't like. If I've learned anything from my brief time here (and it is a brief time, I'm not somebody who got barred and signed up again) it's that some of the lads are bigger women than the actual women lol.

And I absolutely did have green bars at the time of writing that. If it looks like it could've been written in this exact thread then it's actually because I've been consistently belligerent about the reputation bar and how stupid it is - regardless of what colour I happen to be - this entire time.

And if I wake up to a million green bars tomorrow, I'll still have the exact same opinion and that is: "Punters shouldn't be allowed to boost or destroy each other's reputation" because there's at least one escort who revealed that she *does* use the bar to gauge what the man who PMs her is like in real life.

Focus on the vibe that you're projecting Tyler Durden and that is: "I got a diploma in psychology from a one-day-a-week night course I did in 2002 so, you know, I kind of know what I'm talking about here". Use your diploma to analyse why fully-grown men tend to adopt the personna of very famous and very handsome fictional characters when signing up here, and use their pictures - Tyler Durden, Don Draper, Ray Donovan. Why is it never John Goodman or somebody lol?

Sorry Tyler but you don't get to call people creepy and needy and pretend it's constructive criticism.

[Not Tyler Durden]

You're wrong Tyler Durden. You're wrong about the entire thing but you're particularly wrong about there being an obsession with red bars. This isn't my thread. I've never started a discussion about reputation. There was a thread about green bars back in August [LINK] - when I had plenty of green bars - and here's what I said:



And I absolutely did have green bars at the time of writing that. If it looks like it could've been written in this exact thread then it's actually because I've been consistently belligerent about the reputation bar and how stupid it is - regardless of what colour I happen to be - this entire time.

And if I wake up to a million green bars tomorrow, I'll still have the exact same opinion and that is: "Punters shouldn't be allowed to boost or destroy each other's reputation" because there's at least one escort who revealed that she *does* use the bar to gauge what the man who PMs her is like in real life.

Focus on the vibe that you're projecting Tyler Durden and that is: "I got a diploma in psychology from a one-day-a-week night course I did in 2002 so, you know, I kind of know what I'm talking about here". Use your diploma to analyse why fully-grown men tend to adopt the personna of very famous and very handsome fictional characters when signing up here, and use their pictures - Tyler Durden, Don Draper, Ray Donovan. Why is it never John Goodman or somebody lol?

Sorry Tyler but you don't get to call people creepy and needy and pretend it's constructive criticism.

I did say this:

In real life you probably aren't,

And that this was just your current vibe.
I also said some of your posts were funny. You’re probably right my post was a little amateur po-psychology, so I do apologise for that.

I can’t speak for anyone else, but when I joined I had recently watched Fight Club and was amazed how cut Brad Pitt was in that. Looking at myself by comparison I said well I’m Not Tyler Durden and just went with it for a laugh.
For me, I wanted seeing escorts to be a positive experience in my life, so why would I choose a name that made me feel bad about myself?

There are loads of sweet guy, nice guy shy guy usernames on here and as someone who planned to post I thought I should make even a small effort to be distinctive.

I saw a user recently called “AlexandertheMediocre” which I thought was good. Intelligent funny and self deprecating.

I think I saw a user with a John Goodman avatar, but I can’t remember who.

There used to be a user who called himself ChunkyJoe, but reading his posts it’s difficult to believe he wasn’t some sort of bizarre troll.
Here’s a link
https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...858#post810858

He flamed out, so perhaps a self deprecating username wasn’t much help to him.

[Eagle87]

Tyler, I feel so disarmed and surprised by your decency and lack of ego here that I actually don't know what to say except sorry. I do feel quite silly and quite bad. I don't like confrontation. It goes back to my childhood and if you want to put that diploma to good use I'd be happy to speak to you for an hour one day. That was a joke but I was serious about the rest. Cheers.