Aye, I used to get very nervous myself, even apart of seeing any ladies from here. Dating as a younger fella in college for me must have been comedy central for the women, stuttering over the simplest things! I'd be genuinly shaking by the time we got to sex, which was rare in fairness in my college days. But I've found over the years that being respectful but assertive is the way to go, tell the woman what you like and want, ask her what she likes, communicate clearly and it's usually sunshine and lollipops from there. Easier said than done obviously, but practice makes better.