Thoughts on marriage nd escorts

[Scrumhalf9]

And how very Many marriages WE hold together !!

: Countless marriages are held together for the fact that the Man can

get away every so often and visit one of US .

: a loving marriage that is perfect in Every other way , except for a difference in the need

for physical contact , physical intimacy ( say a hug or caress even ! ) , or the difference in

sexual needs .

: WHY SHOULD SUCH MARRIAGE BE Given up when they respect and love each other ?

Perhaps the kids still in-house , growing up , needing - wanting a stable home ?

: And why should in such marriage one partner suffer silently years on end for lack of intimacy ??

: or perhaps resentment build day by day , year by year , feeling rejected and the union Will get destroyed .

If a marriage is a loving union and the Only thing missing is a bit of physical closeness and fun ,

that’s where WE are invaluable , and can provide that bit that’s missing , and send our men home

Happy and satisfied , so he can be a better husband , better father , better partner , even better

at his work !

/ just because You ( or someone ) had a bad experience re this , it does Not negate the general Truth !

The OP owes you a debt of gratitude for this and your earlier post, Stephanie. They cover the whole gamut or if not, what’s not covered is hardly worth mentioning. Nice to know that some in the profession have such a grasp of the big picture within which they work or even think it through at such a philosophical level and then, are prepared to share it in such a clear manner that the questioner should be in no doubt about the potential outcomes of what he is contemplating. You’d leave most advice columnists in the ha’penny place.

[176x]

I'm married and was thinking of booking an escort but wonder if guilt would get to me

She's obviously not satisfying you in the bedroom so fuck it why not...... where's the guilt trip in that

[Godwasgenerous]

Very fair and balanced Stephanie - nice one !

[pegmyass85]

I'm engaged. Made a decision when I got with my fiance I wouldn't use escort again. But few weeks ago I made a decision that I would only visit TS and TV escorts.

[CANALI]

I'm engaged. Made a decision when I got with my fiance I wouldn't use escort again. But few weeks ago I made a decision that I would only visit TS and TV escorts.

Does that mean if you fancy another 'cock' you don't fancy another woman ?? and all is OK in a vague sort of way....poetic licence here I think !!!

[NewPuntDub]

If you want to visit escorts and your wife is unaware then you’re in an unhappy marriage and should leave it. IMHO.

[Cassandra]

I'm married and was thinking of booking an escort but wonder if guilt would get to me

Crazy suggestion; if the issue is in fact physical intimacy and just that, have you considered talking to your wife?
Sometimes on relationships people get so caught up in playing their "role" they forget they came together because of their love. And this love, for such a commitment is usually multifaceted. Look at each and every one of these facets.
First by yourself and once you've a better understanding of those present your needs to her. Be willing and eager to hear her side.

Who knows? It might be something you two could do together? It might be opening up the relationship through things like swinging could be it. It maybe you just need extra support in other areas to re-expand your love and flirt zone.

I am aware for some, the melding that happens once married is the biggest hurdle. The thing becomes to have something, anything, you can keep to just yourself. In the case, re escorting or meeting one; go for it. Try it and see.
Does it fufill that sense of coming back to yourself? Or is it just another way to avoid dealing with non-intimacy related issues? Only you can say.

Sit with it and see. But I'm your decision be clear, be strong and be precise.

Have a beautiful day hon.

[Dom Dunn]

Hear hear this was an exc

[Forceuser]

I'm married and was thinking of booking an escort but wonder if guilt would get to me

..........................................2018

How much of a dick would I be to book a escort as I'm married

Ur right I think the guilt would get to me

[ford pefect]

Crazy suggestion; if the issue is in fact physical intimacy and just that, have you considered talking to your wife?
Sometimes on relationships people get so caught up in playing their "role" they forget they came together because of their love. And this love, for such a commitment is usually multifaceted. Look at each and every one of these facets.
First by yourself and once you've a better understanding of those present your needs to her. Be willing and eager to hear her side.

Who knows? It might be something you two could do together? It might be opening up the relationship through things like swinging could be it. It maybe you just need extra support in other areas to re-expand your love and flirt zone.

I am aware for some, the melding that happens once married is the biggest hurdle. The thing becomes to have something, anything, you can keep to just yourself. In the case, re escorting or meeting one; go for it. Try it and see.
Does it fufill that sense of coming back to yourself? Or is it just another way to avoid dealing with non-intimacy related issues? Only you can say.

Sit with it and see. But I'm your decision be clear, be strong and be precise.

Have a beautiful day hon.

I have talked to my wife on numerous occasions , but nothing changes, she is no longer interested In sex for quite some time, everything else in our marriage is perfect
So I visit some of the beautiful ladies on here and have no guilt whatsoever, to me its only sex and the relationship between a punter and escort is one of the most honest going.
Also if my wife wanted to visit a male escort I would have problem at all,