Thoughts on marriage nd escorts

[Ric Hardgear]

: you will never feel the same way about her , for you Know you’ve strayed .


Depends on your relationship , depends on how you feel about her and about

your marriage Now ..

Once you traipse down this path you may never leave here ; give it some serious thought :

What are your Reasons for wanting to stray ? Are you unhappy ? Bored ? Unfulfilled ?

Is it the sex thing ( don’t get enough / not the sexy stuff you’d want ) ?

Are you prepared to deal with the fallout if she was to find out ?

What if office , coworkers copped on somehow ? ( it’s happened before ! )


: come this way , you will never feel the same way about Her and about You again xx

/ but there’s a whole lot of fun and enjoyment and sheer joy this way too ..

Contemplate ! At Length ! Xx

Good luck in your decision .

Sheer poetry, beautifully written

[ford pefect]

In completing this survey I have yet to ask the wives.
Escorts of course believe you are all a shower of cheating bastards and should be ashamed of yourselves

And of course they are correct 😀

[Cjay123]

In my opinion, guilt doesn't really effect you unless you let it. Take that how you will though

[Joelegs]

After scan reading some of the posts here, I totally agree with what is being said. People stay together for a whole lot of different reasons and not just for love.

Marriage has four important components: respect, relationship, friendship and intimacy.

If one or more of the above are missing from your marriage, then the vows that you took are not worth the the ink on your marriage license.

It takes two people to make a marriage and it takes two people to break it. With that said, IMHO one party may be more responsible for the breakdown of a relationship more than the other. In some cases infidelity is reactionary and caused by sheer frustration, or rejection. Both people in a relationship should respect each other, have interdependence upon each other, be friends and have an intimate relationship. If you want to cold about it, if any of the above is missing one, or both parties are in breech of the contract made to each other, and if you have faith the contract made before God. Yes by seeing an escort you are breaking your marriage vows (contract), but perhaps the contract has already been broken long ago and is in tatters. Seeing an escort is just another step towards the eventual breakdown of your marriage because in your head you know it is already lost.

I would think long and hard before you take the step to see an escort. I was faithful to one woman for twenty-three years. If possible try to talk to your partner or get help if there is something lacking in your marriage. In my case my wife refused to talk to me, or seek help.

With that said, everyone is human, perhaps you want company, perhaps you long for physical contact, or perhaps you want to just feel like a man again. Many men are in the same boat. If some Irish women grew good grass at home, their men wouldn't become lost sheep and wander into the arms or bed of other women. If you are just looking for is some fun, well that's up to you. There were times that I used to feel guilty seeing escorts, but I don't now because I consider my marriage over, I just haven't got the bit paper to legally say it is. You know what, if my wife acted like a wife again and showed me: respect, had a proper relationship with me, was my friend and I wasn't living in a sexless marriage, I would give up seeing escorts tomorrow because no matter how good the GFE is, it is never the same as making love.

I only comment on posts like these to let men know they are not the only one out there who is going through a tuff time at home. I am not crying, or looking for pity. It is what it is, but there are no winners in a marriage breakup.

[Expo]

If you think you are going to feel guilty I would say, what you mean is you know you will feel guilty. So I would say don't do it because you may get hooked and want to keep doing it. Also think about what you've got to loose. You don't miss it till it's gone then reality clicks in. Also think how you'd feel if she went with someone else. I'm single so it's not a bother to me. In the end it's your decision but ye need to think carefully

[Wexfordman]

Im not married and it costs me all the money I have.

That's sad man, you describe an addiction not a hobby. Do the women you meet know that they are getting your last few bob?

[Wexfordman]

After scan reading some of the posts here, I totally agree with what is being said. People stay together for a whole lot of different reasons and not just for love.

Marriage has four important components: respect, relationship, friendship and intimacy.

If one or more of the above are missing from your marriage, then the vows that you took are not worth the the ink on your marriage license.

It takes two people to make a marriage and it takes two people to break it. With that said, IMHO one party may be more responsible for the breakdown of a relationship more than the other. In some cases infidelity is reactionary and caused by sheer frustration, or rejection. Both people in a relationship should respect each other, have interdependence upon each other, be friends and have an intimate relationship. If you want to cold about it, if any of the above is missing one, or both parties are in breech of the contract made to each other, and if you have faith the contract made before God. Yes by seeing an escort you are breaking your marriage vows (contract), but perhaps the contract has already been broken long ago and is in tatters. Seeing an escort is just another step towards the eventual breakdown of your marriage because in your head you know it is already lost.

I would think long and hard before you take the step to see an escort. I was faithful to one woman for twenty-three years. If possible try to talk to your partner or get help if there is something lacking in your marriage. In my case my wife refused to talk to me, or seek help.

With that said, everyone is human, perhaps you want company, perhaps you long for physical contact, or perhaps you want to just feel like a man again. Many men are in the same boat. If some Irish women grew good grass at home, their men wouldn't become lost sheep and wander into the arms or bed of other women. If you are just looking for is some fun, well that's up to you. There were times that I used to feel guilty seeing escorts, but I don't now because I consider my marriage over, I just haven't got the bit paper to legally say it is. You know what, if my wife acted like a wife again and showed me: respect, had a proper relationship with me, was my friend and I wasn't living in a sexless marriage, I would give up seeing escorts tomorrow because no matter how good the GFE is, it is never the same as making love.

I only comment on posts like these to let men know they are not the only one out there who is going through a tuff time at home. I am not crying, or looking for pity. It is what it is, but there are no winners in a marriage breakup.

Great post. What did you do that she stopped talking to you?
Your like the Bull McCabe with the spousal silence!

[JennyIrish]

I'm married and was thinking of booking an escort but wonder if guilt would get to me

I think only you can answer that.

I genuinely believe that my married clients love their wives, they're just missing something. Sex is just sex, I think it would be worse to have an affair with feelings and emotions involved and a higher risk of being found out.

With an escort it's just a brief escape, you're helping her out and shes helping you out and that's it.

But it you do feel that you're going to have alot of guilt, would it really be worth it for that mental anguish?

That's my two cents anyway, best of luck!

[Joelegs]

It was all my fault bro, I got blew up while working in Afghanistan and we couldn't afford to buy a big new house, new cars or go on exotic holidays anymore. I know, I was selfish bastard, I should have died and she could have collected my tax-free death bounty, personally I blame the big hairy fucker with the RPG and his mate with a heavy machine gun for fucking it all up and not doing a good job. I often wondered would she have complained if the Talaban had a customer complaints section.

[ford pefect]

I think only you can answer that.

I genuinely believe that my married clients love their wives, they're just missing something. Sex is just sex, I think it would be worse to have an affair with feelings and emotions involved and a higher risk of being found out.

With an escort it's just a brief escape, you're helping her out and shes helping you out and that's it.

But it you do feel that you're going to have alot of guilt, would it really be worth it for that mental anguish?

That's my two cents anyway, best of luck!

I am a very happily married man who visits escorts, my wife no longer desires sex but I do.
Does she know I visit escorts ? No , Does she suspect I visit escorts ? I think so.
Would I visit escorts if my wife still wanted a healthy sex life ? Hell yes
In the wise words of Irish Jenny "sex is just sex "