what are you expecting from Tantra ? Some guys who have posted here seem to get a lot from Tantra. You need to be really good at relaxing and getting lost in the moment. There are good Tantra courses around Prague.... Not overly expensive. I spent a few days on one. My problem is that I am more of a giver than a taker so the idea of not being able to touch the masseuse can reduce my pleasure quite a bit