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richellehot
I don't think this is much of a fetish, but I like it when the man I am with has a large finish as I feel like I made him very happy
By a large finish, I presume you mean a large load.
However a large load is no guarantee of a fully satisfactory experience. Although orgasm and ejaculation usually happen at the same time, it is possible to ejaculate without orgasm which is a very unsatisfactory experience. The opposite is also possible, orgasm without ejaculation. Now that does have benefits as it can lead to multiple orgasms.
There's also something called retrograde orgasm. The cum takes the wrong path and shoots into the bladder. I've experienced this twice and both times were with different massage escorts that used a similar hand technique. Was quite scary the first time it happened, but also quite pleasurable as the escort did not realise I was cumming and kept trying harder, I had to beg her to stop.
Retrograde ejaculation probably happens quite often but isn't recognised. Do you ever know that you have cum but the condom was empty and next couple of times you pee you find it hard to go or you might notice what appears like a discharge when peeing.
Yes. I have discussed this with my doctor.
To anyone that doesn't like me here.
I hope you need to pee 3 times tonight, but that you only wake up twice.