Am I doing something wrong?

[fernandoguel]

Hi lads,

I've been using Escort Ireland since pubs and clubs closed and the dating scene started falling apart.

I'm 30, white, good shape, good looking, white smile, European and I'm not saying it to brag, it is just to mention I don't see how my appearance would be the problem.

Before this whole situation we're living now, I was going out on many dates and successfully was getting girls to my bed. So, I really don't think the problem is how I look.

However, I don't know if is only with me, or if is happening to many of you, but I'm having many escorts who aren't really interested to do what they were paid for and treating me really badly as a client.

3 out of 9 escorts I've been out with, basically just wanted my money, lying down there, make me cum as fast as possible and get out of their face. Even though, I asked "girlfriend experience" to all of them.

There was no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.

What is going on? I'm not expecting to have an escort as the love of my life, but at least I was expecting to be respected as I always respected all of them.

When I read reviews like "we had a laugh", "we talked and had a deep connection" and bla bla bla, I really keep thinking if those reviews are real or if the problem is with me or specifically with those 3 girls.

What about you guys? How are your experience being so far?

[RoddyMcCorley]

How long were the appointments? 1hour or more is best for gfe type .

Also how much did you pay? Cheaper ones are not usually the best.

Did the escorts have lots of good reviews? Opted out ones can be dodgy.

Were they late at night? Escorts need sleep too.

[lol brb]

Are you letting them know that you’re not Irish before hand.

Some ladies don’t see some nationalities for personal reasons. And this might be the reason for a cool welcome.

[AmbiValent]

However, I don't know if is only with me, or if is happening to many of you, but I'm having many escorts who aren't really interested to do what they were paid for and treating me really badly as a client.

3 out of 9 escorts I've been out with, basically just wanted my money, lying down there, make me cum as fast as possible and get out of their face. Even though, I asked "girlfriend experience" to all of them.

There was no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.

So you're having a 66% success rate. That's not too bad. With a bit better research leading to better selections you could probably increase that to 80%.
It's not realistic to expect great (or even good) experiences every time you visit. It's called punting for a reason. Every visit is a gamble.

[Roderik]

I am not good looking and I have serious weight management problems. Had "meh" experiences only a three times from over 20 appointments. I am usually treated really well. Reviews are a good indicator as well as making sure that certain favorites are provided. Fluent English is also a must for me. It's much easier to get along if both parties understand each other, especially if you are after more than a "basic" service. I also find it best to book for at least 1.5 hours to avoid the rush and have time to relax.

[SteveB]

My experiences so far?
I am tempted to say similar to yours!

The “no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.” Must admit, have had some of that experience but not often. Like Roderik, my “meh” experiences would have been about three. Usually, I thought, it was inexperience on the part of the escort.

Where my experience is similar to yours is with specific favourites like “GFE”, or any favourite, is that if you go looking for it you are often disappointed. Finding out which escorts provide what favourite is just a matter of experience.
Reviews are hard to write. Cannot, and do not want to, write anything personal or specific but then what use are reviews that are not specific or even personal? Difficult balancing act.

No, I don't think you are doing anything wrong. Perhaps you have been unlucky meeting those three escorts so early. I was lucky that the first few escorts I met were friendly and helpful. The more escorts you meet, you are more likely to meet the escorts who provide the favourites you like.
It would be nice, and helpful, if escorts did not advertise favourites they do not provide.

[claremorris]

Hi lads,

I've been using Escort Ireland since pubs and clubs closed and the dating scene started falling apart.

I'm 30, white, good shape, good looking, white smile, European and I'm not saying it to brag, it is just to mention I don't see how my appearance would be the problem.

Before this whole situation we're living now, I was going out on many dates and successfully was getting girls to my bed. So, I really don't think the problem is how I look.

However, I don't know if is only with me, or if is happening to many of you, but I'm having many escorts who aren't really interested to do what they were paid for and treating me really badly as a client.

3 out of 9 escorts I've been out with, basically just wanted my money, lying down there, make me cum as fast as possible and get out of their face. Even though, I asked "girlfriend experience" to all of them.

There was no talk, no touch, nothing, just straight down to the business, and then telling me to dress up and get out! Also, very bad mood since opening the door until I leave.

What is going on? I'm not expecting to have an escort as the love of my life, but at least I was expecting to be respected as I always respected all of them.

When I read reviews like "we had a laugh", "we talked and had a deep connection" and bla bla bla, I really keep thinking if those reviews are real or if the problem is with me or specifically with those 3 girls.

What about you guys? How are your experience being so far?

I am actually glad to read your posts as I thought I was experiencing Ageism. I am also white but that is where our similarity ends.

[bigmango]

Most of us have had bad encounters where the provider did not want to be in the room - she just lies there like a "dead fish" - even for one hour bookings.
Other times you may not get on.

Repeat visits normally lead to better encounters. So if you find someone that gives a reasonable service I would visit again.
Its good to have a few ladies that you can reply on for a good encounter & have multiple repeat visits over time. (Its good for you & them).

As was previously said - One Hour minimum, Costing over a ton & a half with some good reviews by experienced punters increases the chances of success.
However always bear in mind that sometimes what is a diamond for you - maybe a lump of coal for someone else (& vice versa) - personal experience.

[My2girls]

Just the way it goes sometimes can be good or bad as for gfe i haven't seen it yet

[jayv2k18]

I must be very lucky . Out of all the girls I've met I've only ever had one bad encounter.