Should you leave a bad review

[SunSeaSex]

Looking for some opinions here. Was discussing recently with a group of like minded ppl. Should you leave a bad review for a girl who refuses to see you because of your ethnicity. When she doesn’t state it on her profile.

Its good that she is honest. Maybe she didn't want a bad review so she didn't accept you as she may not be able to click with you and provide good GFE.

You can't fake good GFE. Even with professionals, if the client smells of death and insists on OWO, don't expect to be felt loved

[mui11]

I didn’t realise this would stir up this many feelings. It’s happened a quite a few times I’d say about 15 or more actually and oddly enough 3 times in the 2 days recently.

Before any new appointments I usually state my race and when told it’s ok i go ahead. I also tell them my profile just to make sure they know who i am. The odd thing is for this appointment I didn’t because she was of the same ethnicity as myself so didn’t even think. I got to the hotel door knocked and no answer knocked again and same thing. We all know how hotels can be so i was getting a little antsy. i rang in case she didn’t hear and saw a text asking if my ethnicity. I explained and she gave me the reasons she couldn’t see me. It was odd to me but i accepted and moved one.

I tried to see two other girls the next and i stated both times my race and I was told it was fine by whomever I was talking to. And i arrived and went up and the lady told me she doesn’t see people of my ethnic background. I said ok rang another number and pretty much the same thing happened. I’ve usually let it go as you are completely correct it’s 100% a ladies choice and as any ladies who have seen me here i like to think I’m a pretty nice guy who has never had an issue with any women i see.

Just to clarify what i meant by bad review was a review stating didn’t meet as said lady didn’t want to see someone of my ethnicity. The ladies turning me away at the door is nothing new, I’ve accepted this it’s just to inform other that this may happen.

I visit the uk quite a bit and I’ve had it happen there too so I understand and don’t really mind. Just sometimes feel it’ll be great to be informed so I don’t waste my time and hers too.

Sophie Rachel thanks for the compliments I’m blushing a little here 🥰🥰🥰

[Mij]

You shouldn't accept it, the colour of a person's skin is irrelevant. It's not ok in my opinion to make a call on a persons character based on race. Most of the most disgusting people in history are white like me., Just because I am the same colour as Hitler and Stalin doesn't make me a mass murderer, as for black people, they just can't compare to those two. The thousands of slave masters who raped and beat innocent Africans in north and south America, their decendents are fine but the decendants of slaves aren't?
Escorts have free will, I respect all policies they have, bit excluding people on the basis of race is very narrow minded.

I didn’t realise this would stir up this many feelings. It’s happened a quite a few times I’d say about 15 or more actually and oddly enough 3 times in the 2 days recently.

Before any new appointments I usually state my race and when told it’s ok i go ahead. I also tell them my profile just to make sure they know who i am. The odd thing is for this appointment I didn’t because she was of the same ethnicity as myself so didn’t even think. I got to the hotel door knocked and no answer knocked again and same thing. We all know how hotels can be so i was getting a little antsy. i rang in case she didn’t hear and saw a text asking if my ethnicity. I explained and she gave me the reasons she couldn’t see me. It was odd to me but i accepted and moved one.

I tried to see two other girls the next and i stated both times my race and I was told it was fine by whomever I was talking to. And i arrived and went up and the lady told me she doesn’t see people of my ethnic background. I said ok rang another number and pretty much the same thing happened. I’ve usually let it go as you are completely correct it’s 100% a ladies choice and as any ladies who have seen me here i like to think I’m a pretty nice guy who has never had an issue with any women i see.

Just to clarify what i meant by bad review was a review stating didn’t meet as said lady didn’t want to see someone of my ethnicity. The ladies turning me away at the door is nothing new, I’ve accepted this it’s just to inform other that this may happen.

I visit the uk quite a bit and I’ve had it happen there too so I understand and don’t really mind. Just sometimes feel it’ll be great to be informed so I don’t waste my time and hers too.

Sophie Rachel thanks for the compliments I’m blushing a little here 🥰🥰🥰

[SunSeaSex]

Is it race or ethnic background? I don't see how a black punter would be any different, but if you are Irish traveller I can understand as they are feared by the public

[MichelleFox]

Well I feel bad for guy to travel and stay behind the door and been refused. Coz of skin color. I can imagine how you feel. Sorry to hear that. In other hand I understand totally the girl. Some girls don’t see Asians, Black guys, Indian guys coz of fear, not sexually attracted, mainly a bad experience. Majority of the girls don’t see guys from Hungary, Czech, Slovak, Russia, Romania, Latvia, Moldova. You know why? 90% of attack, robbery, insults, rapes, beating up been made by them.

Fun fact. I don’t mind any colors of skin for massage. But for full service I don’t mind if I know them already from massage. If I don’t know them I don’t feel comfortable. Unless I get references from other girls, see their ei profile - reviews. I had very bad experience with black guys and Indian guys for full service. Do I want to feel that way again? Even for money? NO.


Yes after BLM and all we still deal with this stigma. But on the end of the day. We are women who are alone in da house or hotel and opening the door and pussy to the strangers. We need to feel safe and comfortable.

Everybody their own.

[seanie2]

In all my time meeting escorts I've never, not once, met a client coming out on my way in, nor vice versa.

Have to say though, nice inversion of expectations on your part.
Usually you chuds go with 'I met them on the way in' for maximum effect.

in all your time you say and one Escort later youre not going to meet them coming out if you're not going in and active other than your own bedroom and the best thing I love is when clients see me coming out and think how in Gods name am I going to live up to this guy if he has seen her and that gives me a huge buzz too

[Lisa007]

I didn’t realise this would stir up this many feelings. It’s happened a quite a few times I’d say about 15 or more actually and oddly enough 3 times in the 2 days recently.

Before any new appointments I usually state my race and when told it’s ok i go ahead. I also tell them my profile just to make sure they know who i am. The odd thing is for this appointment I didn’t because she was of the same ethnicity as myself so didn’t even think. I got to the hotel door knocked and no answer knocked again and same thing. We all know how hotels can be so i was getting a little antsy. i rang in case she didn’t hear and saw a text asking if my ethnicity. I explained and she gave me the reasons she couldn’t see me. It was odd to me but i accepted and moved one.

I tried to see two other girls the next and i stated both times my race and I was told it was fine by whomever I was talking to. And i arrived and went up and the lady told me she doesn’t see people of my ethnic background. I said ok rang another number and pretty much the same thing happened. I’ve usually let it go as you are completely correct it’s 100% a ladies choice and as any ladies who have seen me here i like to think I’m a pretty nice guy who has never had an issue with any women i see.

Just to clarify what i meant by bad review was a review stating didn’t meet as said lady didn’t want to see someone of my ethnicity. The ladies turning me away at the door is nothing new, I’ve accepted this it’s just to inform other that this may happen.

I visit the uk quite a bit and I’ve had it happen there too so I understand and don’t really mind. Just sometimes feel it’ll be great to be informed so I don’t waste my time and hers too.

Sophie Rachel thanks for the compliments I’m blushing a little here ������

That changes the narrative of course. Being turned down at the door is neither pleasant nor fair.
An N/A review is different from a bad review and if you feel you should submit one than you should do it without asking people’s opinion about it. It’s your experience.
Of course we the service providers can sympathise with the girl in question for various reasons.
I for one if I did that to someone I would have no problem getting an N/A review, I would accept the consequences of my decision.

[WeeJimmy]

Your missing the point
She can,t put it on her thread , if you don,t understand this then you have not read or taken in what the girls have said about how they have been abused because of what they put on their profiles . It,s their bodies , their choices

I see it plain on other escort sites, its on their profiles and know some escorts that say its made life easier with less calls as there only so much an escort can take a day, I know you will get nuisance texts/emails at the start but that from people messing with no intention of seeing you anyway but they will eventually get fed up with it and to counter this they dont accept texts.

[denis01]

I didn’t realise this would stir up this many feelings. It’s happened a quite a few times I’d say about 15 or more actually and oddly enough 3 times in the 2 days recently.

Before any new appointments I usually state my race and when told it’s ok i go ahead. I also tell them my profile just to make sure they know who i am. The odd thing is for this appointment I didn’t because she was of the same ethnicity as myself so didn’t even think. I got to the hotel door knocked and no answer knocked again and same thing. We all know how hotels can be so i was getting a little antsy. i rang in case she didn’t hear and saw a text asking if my ethnicity. I explained and she gave me the reasons she couldn’t see me. It was odd to me but i accepted and moved one.

I tried to see two other girls the next and i stated both times my race and I was told it was fine by whomever I was talking to. And i arrived and went up and the lady told me she doesn’t see people of my ethnic background. I said ok rang another number and pretty much the same thing happened. I’ve usually let it go as you are completely correct it’s 100% a ladies choice and as any ladies who have seen me here i like to think I’m a pretty nice guy who has never had an issue with any women i see.

Just to clarify what i meant by bad review was a review stating didn’t meet as said lady didn’t want to see someone of my ethnicity. The ladies turning me away at the door is nothing new, I’ve accepted this it’s just to inform other that this may happen.

I visit the uk quite a bit and I’ve had it happen there too so I understand and don’t really mind. Just sometimes feel it’ll be great to be informed so I don’t waste my time and hers too.

I think you are being incredibly tolerant, far more than any of the people commenting on here who are telling you to just get over it and get on with your life.

It is easy for a lot of posters here that are dismissing your experiences, talking about "political correctness", telling you to just get over it - they have obviously absolutely no idea - nor do I - what it is like to be turned away just because of the colour of your skin. And for this to be a common thing - I guarantee that the punters telling you to just man up and accept it wouldn't accept it once if it happened to them, never mind 15 times.

It is easy for a white Irish guy to tell someone that this stuff is "no biggie", that there is "nothing wrong with it", as some posters have said here. It is never going to happen to us, but that shows how completely clueless a lot of people on this thread - and in Ireland as a whole - are about the real experience of racism.

100% leave a review. It may not make any difference, but this is absolutely something that should be put in a review.

[MichelleFox]

Last thing. You sounds very nice and polite and so understanding and really incredibly tolerant mui11 ❤️



For you others. Just make it clear.

As woman - independent service provider. I have right to decide what ever I want. As I offer very personal services. In case to be paid or not. NO MAN ever will tell me what to do, with who, how, for how much, make decisions for me, take over, tell me how to run my biz, who I should see or have sex with or give massage to, whats the best for me, how it should be done, how to present myself, makes me feel not worth it or less, doubt my self, put me down, shame me for what I do, makes me not comfortable. NO CHANCE! Over my dead body.