Picture the scene right: You're out with the girls in a club, and there's this fella. You can't take your eyes off this geezer and he can't take his eyes off you. There's obvious attraction. Couple of Jagerbombs later and he plucks up the courage to speak to you. And now there's not only physical attraction, but chemistry, and eventually you're both meeting the face off one another in the back of a taxi en route to his apartment. But you only went out looking for a one-night stand, not a potential boyfriend or husband, and so you don't see the need to reveal personal things about yourself - full name, hobbies, sexual preferences and, most importantly, occupation. Let's say he doesn't know you're an escort and whatever happens, you know in your heart that you're not staying the night, and that you'll most likely never see him again after leaving.

With all that in mind, what do you do: Do you take control sexually, utilise all of your experience to suck him and fuck him so good that he can't believe you're real, or do you tone down your experience and expertise and let him steer the ship?

I ask because if you make this fella cum so hard that he breaks his own toes by clenching them, he's probably going to want to ask for your number with a view toward asking you out for dinner or something. If you give him your best GFE experience without him knowing that's all it is (remember, you're not an escort in his eyes, just some girl he clicked with in a nightclub) then he might want you to be his actual girlfriend, but as mentioned this was a one-time thing for you and was from the very start.

So is it better to give this fella a night he'll never forget, but one he'll probably never have again, or is it better if you tone it down, make him think you're no more or less experienced sexually than any other Irish woman your age and have him forget you once the door closes. It's sort of a 'Loved and lost or never loved at all' kind of dilemma.

Zero judgement from me either way I genuinely think it's an interesting question.