It's a interesting double standard I've been in night club where on several occasions women have attempted to groupe me against my will when I didn't respond they way they wanted have began to shout abuse at me, insult me, question my sexuality have had bouncers and there boyfriend's come over and attempted to physically assault me. Unfortunately there's nothing as a man you can really do as from my experience people will not listen, lucky for me I had people who where willing to back me up in these situations and mostly strangers. Often as man your told be grateful for the attention.