Mistress Love

[tony1]

Mistress Love had anyone seen her. She opted of review

[rubsub]

Haven’t met but sent her a message last week. Judging by the response back I wouldn’t expect anything more than the “escort with a cheap whip from Ann Summers” service. I’ve chosen to pass and see if a prodomme decides to visit.

[francisca]

Dominatrix French looks promising,good reviews,in Limerick now,Cork on Monday

[rubsub]

None of those reviewers have ever been to a ProDomme before. Would take what they’ve said with a pinch of salt. In my opinion both mentioned are escorts who do a bit of domination on the side. Mistress Love has an escorts page “The Queen” and I’ve had some contact with Dominatrix French and I would say there would be few favourites on offer / equipped to offer / experienced enough to offer. Experience is key! Yes I know you can’t get experience if everyone didn’t visit for lack of experience. I just get the impression from being in contact with some of these “Dominatrixes” that they think they know everything under the sun about bdsm when realistically they know very little which is actually quite dangerous when a submissive (not SLAVE, another thing these “Dominatrixes” assume is every punter is their slave!) is handing over control. Take whipping as an example as that’s what every new “Dominatrix” tends to offer as a service. Does that person know where to whip and where not to whip? Course half of ye are going what’s he talking about. Guess what?!? There’s a fine line in the areas that should and shouldn’t be whipped but I guarantee there’s only the few real ProDommes advertising on EI know that. You want kidney damage you go to an inexperienced girl who thinks they know it all and you have fun ***insert face palm here*** is that knot tied too tight and will it cut off circulation? Is their a safety scissors at hand if something goes wrong? Does this person know the real effects of poppers I.e. are they able to identify when things are about to go south?

I know I sound salty but go visit a proper ProDomme like Mistress Scarlet or Mistress Phi or Adette and then visit an escort who’s just been to the local Ann Summers and purchased the “Fifty Shades of Grey Starter Kit” for €29.99 and thinks their Domina Supreme. I also get that, how good a ProDomme is at their job isn’t defined by how much kit they have but in my experience the dommes who invest in equipment (which is expensive!) are the dommes who’ve also invested in themselves to train and learn the skills of bdsm. Of course there will be outliers but that’s been my general experience.

One of the “dommes” in the posts above sent me a pic of their travelling equipment and my response was a slightly more mannerly “is that it?” This was to flush out the truth. Response: they can’t bring everything... ProDommes visiting this country bring suitcases of equipment with them. What was pictured would fit in a handbag.....and that’ll bring the argument of “buy your own equipment” up. Been there done that. If the “domme” doesn’t own the item themselves then 9/10 times they won’t have experience with the piece of equipment either so if you like being a Guiney Pig knock yourself out.... literally :P

Lastly I understand soft core domination is what some punters want but not everyone wants soft core so if you only offer softcore and are asked about more hardcore fetishes be upfront about it and don’t waste both of our time and gets yourself a negative review in the process.

Adette is supposed to be back soon so I’d hold off for her.

[fluffy69]

Agree with everything u say rubsub glad to see adette on way back proper pro with great intuition

[indosex]

Adette surely is a great Domme. One of the best visiting Ireland. Had the opportunity to be at her feet last week..

[francisca]

Thanks for your observations rubsub,yes a lot of wisdom in your post. I will have to see Adette.down the years I have seen a fair few mistresses,some good but a lot as you said with toy whips n stuff.

[rubsub]

Thanks for your observations rubsub,yes a lot of wisdom in your post. I will have to see Adette.down the years I have seen a fair few mistresses,some good but a lot as you said with toy whips n stuff.

Sorry Francisca my post wasn’t aimed at you directly. I had just had a delightful discussion with one of the women mentioned above which went hostile very quickly when their inexperience had become very apparent so I was a little hyped up after being called “Hey bitch” and told to “fuck off” :P on the other hand that’s the standard with any Micky mouse domme. If you politely ask about equipment on the phone and they put the phone down on you it is a tell tale sign to stay away. Any real ProDomme would be happy to have a brief conversation about fetishes, equipment and experience with a client. I’ve even had more in-depth, nearly interview style phone conversation with some ProDommes to establish limits, health conditions etc. If you get “My favourites are on my ad honey...” it’s a tell tale sign you’re speaking to an escort rather than a domme and that they don’t understand that EIs favs system is pretty limited in the long run of things. Although it has gotten better but still is miles off the likes of Adult works or a dedicated website. Speaking of websites I forgot to mention those earlier as both mentioned above have websites. One is blatantly obvious it is an escorts website rather than a dominatrix website, you don’t need me to tell you that. And the other site is really poorly put together and while I assume they tried translating from another language it has basically resulted in gibberish.

Im just a bit once bitten twice shy. To be honest the reason I’m so vocal about it is that I find it disrespectful to the women who do put the time, effort and money into mastering their craft for some chancers to come along and do what they do. But that happens in all walks of life.

And again while I’ve started this post addressing you Francisca this post is more of a general FYI to any sub, slaves, kinksters, fetishists etc etc from a submissive fetishist with nearly ten years of experience with professional dominatrixes.

[rubsub]

Thanks for your observations rubsub,yes a lot of wisdom in your post. I will have to see Adette.down the years I have seen a fair few mistresses,some good but a lot as you said with toy whips n stuff.

Forgot to say I had had a look through your reviews and you’ve visited some of the few good Professional Dominatrixes that have been on this isle of Ireland over the last ten years. Pity some of them haven’t come back!

[td1]

Dominatrix French looks promising,good reviews,in Limerick now,Cork on Monday

She does, fuller figured too.

Id say she must be over 6' i heels, she looks bloody amazing.