How to calm pre-appointment nerves

[philipkntz]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

I thought you were going to do something kinky with those marshmallows.

[Rooster39]

I had really bad social anxiety I'd go red start sweating and be a real bucket of nerves. Was no way I'd talk to pretty girls and was awkward on phone. But after meeting so many beautiful girls from here a lot of which I felt very comfortable around very quickly really helped me.i don't really get nervous now and feel that the social anxiety has completely gone.

Same reason for me to get involved in this. I really want to build confidence around women particularly in "sexy" situations, my own lack of experience + social anxiety has made things really difficult and awkward when dealing with women in dating & initiating relationships.

[AlwaysAddicted]

Hi Mate...

Can I ask you question's... You met two Courtesan you review, and how did you feel in them meeting.....?

Where you nervous on the phone...? Also where you nervous, when you met them, and during her company.

If you weren't nervous in the Courtesan company and felt relax during it.

Then you will be ok, and build up a few regulars Courtesan. So you only have to text her, to book in future meeting.

But if you are suffering anxiety of intimacy, in a Courtesan company like I do.

Then you can to tell the Courtesan, you suffer nervous and anxiety. Which ask her give you a massage or give her a massage, to ease your fear of nervous.

It help you to, if you meet a few Courtesan to build up confident. We all been there and like Oldfool said.

Meeting Courtesan is nervous all times. But it is, suppose to be privilege and fun for both people. So communication toward one another, is the key to better understanding and will lead to great meeting. Maybe book 1 hour appointment, to ease your nervous Mate.

Hope that help Mate, and remember the Courtesan is probably nervous as the client.

Good luck" and enjoy the company of Beautiful Courtesan :-) !!!

Both times I had a Shakey voice on the phone and stumbled over my words a bit, and both times while I was at the meeting I was still quite nervous and had some unwelcome irrational paranoid thoughts floating in "what if this is a set up by the guards". I just need to relax more so I can enjoy it to be full extent

[bmw528]

Both times I had a Shakey voice on the phone and stumbled over my words a bit, and both times while I was at the meeting I was still quite nervous and had some unwelcome irrational paranoid thoughts floating in "what if this is a set up by the guards". I just need to relax more so I can enjoy it to be full extent

All these thoughts can come into your head and we ve all been there, however if you visit well established ladies and also word of mouth and p.m recommendations it might help to overcome some of your problems.. Its worked for me in the past and even lately.. Just my thoughts.

[MichelleFox]

So nice to hear that meeting us is helping with social anxiety or building self confidence.

There are even courses to help with social anxiety. Even videos how to help your self in some situations and build up inter peace and feel good in your own skin, be able to communicate. Social anxiety is actually big thing lately. Main is to start and realize that you have problem. And it’s pity to separate from enjoying life and people.
We all fight with something...

Stay strong guys x

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

You always got a great answer to every problem Bmw, with your intelligent thought out mind

Must try that in my next booking with a Courtesan, and bring marshmallow instead of chocolate

The marshmallows will shut my mouth up from talking sh*te. And more action and less talk in Courtesan company

Only problem is Bmw .... If I stuff my mouth with sticky marshmallows, then they will be no French Kissing with the Courtesan after Because mouth full of marshmallow, is hard to French Kiss

Still it could help with nervous and anxiety. I did notice when I was chatting with the Courtesan I met, that they would be offering me chocolate.

Maybe they where hinting to me. To eat the chocolate and shut feck up talking them Courtesan toward boredom

Thanks for the tip on that Bmw

[bmw528]

You always got a great answer to every problem Bmw, with your intelligent thought out mind

Must try that in my next booking with a Courtesan, and bring marshmallow instead of chocolate

The marshmallows will shut my mouth up from talking sh*te. And more action and less talk in Courtesan company

Only problem is Bmw .... If I stuff my mouth with sticky marshmallows, then they will be no French Kissing with the Courtesan after Because mouth full of marshmallow, is hard to French Kiss

Still it could help with nervous and anxiety. I did notice when I was chatting with the Courtesan I met, that they would be offering me chocolate.

Maybe they where hinting to me. To eat the chocolate and shut feck up talking them Courtesan toward boredom

Thanks for the tip on that Bmw

It might be worth asking the Courtesan would she prefer the Marshmallows or the chocolate or both in some cases..Although having looked at the Courtesans profile and photos you will probably figure out weather she likes both.. She may also recommend a weight watchers course .

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

I am going to take a pack of marshmallow with me, for my brother wedding this Friday

Eat some of them sticky marshmallow, before I have to do the best man speech

They will help with the anxiety and a short speech

Both times I had a Shakey voice on the phone and stumbled over my words a bit, and both times while I was at the meeting I was still quite nervous and had some unwelcome irrational paranoid thoughts floating in "what if this is a set up by the guards". I just need to relax more so I can enjoy it to be full extent

Serious point you make there. That is exactly to, how I would describe my ordeal in the Courtesan company.

It nightmare and what my paranoid is... I think the Courtesan and I won't click when we meet. Which I feel she is not comfortable, and doesn't want to get intimate in my company.

So like you, I overthink and let paranoid take over. Which lead to chatting session, and even Courtesan reassurance that they do click in your company. I keep doubting the Courtesan on that.

But words of caution Mate... If you keep doubting when the Courtesan say she enjoy your company and click. You will annoyed her and anger her. Eventually, she will grow tired of doubtful on her words. Which she will stop taking your booking not see you no more. Even now I have one Courtesan who I have met. She at the point of anger and annoyed of me doubting her reassurance.

Their is course's you can seek help and try out Mate. I have done a course last year over my anxiety in Lady company, and it help a lot. As my last 4 meeting with a Courtesan. 2 here in Ireland and 2 abroad, has give me confident to relax and believe Courtesan reassurance.

So believe in yourself Mate, listen to the Courtesan assurance and her advice. One thing I learned. That if the Courtesan didn't enjoy your company. She wouldn't take a 2nd booking with you. As intimacy with the Courtesan consent, is part of her time n companionship business.

Try to let go and fully enjoy her company without fear and anxiety. As fear and anxiety will lead to being paranoid, and will ruin any meeting you have in Courtesan company. Count to 10 and breathe out before you walk in, and before you chat also.

Easy said then done. But as I mention, tell her your fear and anxiety. These Courtesan are very understanding, but don't keep doubting her words.

I know and understand your pain and fear. As we should be enjoying being in company of Ladies, that are stunning Beautiful looking. But it action is harder to act upon when anxious and nervous.

Good luck and hope it work out for you to conquer your anxiety.

[jre679]

So nice to hear that meeting us is helping with social anxiety or building self confidence.

There are even courses to help with social anxiety. Even videos how to help your self in some situations and build up inter peace and feel good in your own skin, be able to communicate. Social anxiety is actually big thing lately. Main is to start and realize that you have problem. And it’s pity to separate from enjoying life and people.
We all fight with something...

Stay strong guys x

Damn, now i want to meet you

[ford pefect]

If I’m not driving I would have two beers before the meeting , it also prolongs the encounter