How to calm pre-appointment nerves

[bmw528]

I agree on your points Mate. Which it should feel like that. But nervous does play havoc in the Courtesan company. Things like, not able to cum or get intimate with the Lady. Does happen, and I had experiences like that many times due to nervous.

These Courtesan put their heart and soul into their business, to fulfill the client fantasy within their consent.

But true" when you step up to the Courtsean door, and see a Beautiful Courtsean in Gym outfit Then even myself would find it easy to enjoy the Courtsean company

Hardest part can be when you walk in and look at the Beautiful Lady, standing in front of you. As the nerves are causing havoc.

Which the Lady look you in the eyes. Then say hello and relax babe, as she goes to kiss n hug the client. That can make a shy client nerves relax, or want the floor to swallow him up

Which then a shy Gent, can struggle to get or enjoy intimate part, of Courtesan companionship.

But very true" it all about enjoying or try to enjoy Courtesan company. Whatever the client and the Lady are happy with.

Life is to short to overthink everything in the Courtesan company. But I am afraid, that what nervous n anxious Gent will do !!!

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

[philipkntz]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

I thought you were going to do something kinky with those marshmallows.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

You always got a great answer to every problem Bmw, with your intelligent thought out mind

Must try that in my next booking with a Courtesan, and bring marshmallow instead of chocolate

The marshmallows will shut my mouth up from talking sh*te. And more action and less talk in Courtesan company

Only problem is Bmw .... If I stuff my mouth with sticky marshmallows, then they will be no French Kissing with the Courtesan after Because mouth full of marshmallow, is hard to French Kiss

Still it could help with nervous and anxiety. I did notice when I was chatting with the Courtesan I met, that they would be offering me chocolate.

Maybe they where hinting to me. To eat the chocolate and shut feck up talking them Courtesan toward boredom

Thanks for the tip on that Bmw

[bmw528]

You always got a great answer to every problem Bmw, with your intelligent thought out mind

Must try that in my next booking with a Courtesan, and bring marshmallow instead of chocolate

The marshmallows will shut my mouth up from talking sh*te. And more action and less talk in Courtesan company

Only problem is Bmw .... If I stuff my mouth with sticky marshmallows, then they will be no French Kissing with the Courtesan after Because mouth full of marshmallow, is hard to French Kiss

Still it could help with nervous and anxiety. I did notice when I was chatting with the Courtesan I met, that they would be offering me chocolate.

Maybe they where hinting to me. To eat the chocolate and shut feck up talking them Courtesan toward boredom

Thanks for the tip on that Bmw

It might be worth asking the Courtesan would she prefer the Marshmallows or the chocolate or both in some cases..Although having looked at the Courtesans profile and photos you will probably figure out weather she likes both.. She may also recommend a weight watchers course .

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Thats all very true M.S.Guy, however in a nervous situation like this, you could always try the following which I am sure the Courtesan would consent to. If you brought a large box of Marsh mallows of the chewiest type and keep eating them one by one until your jaws get sticky and you have to open your mouth and talk this could be an icebreaker and the Courtesan might see the amusing side to the situation.. Depending on the Courtesan, and believe me ,as I have met quite a few in my punting time, she might even join in to ease the situation.

I am going to take a pack of marshmallow with me, for my brother wedding this Friday

Eat some of them sticky marshmallow, before I have to do the best man speech

They will help with the anxiety and a short speech

Both times I had a Shakey voice on the phone and stumbled over my words a bit, and both times while I was at the meeting I was still quite nervous and had some unwelcome irrational paranoid thoughts floating in "what if this is a set up by the guards". I just need to relax more so I can enjoy it to be full extent

Serious point you make there. That is exactly to, how I would describe my ordeal in the Courtesan company.

It nightmare and what my paranoid is... I think the Courtesan and I won't click when we meet. Which I feel she is not comfortable, and doesn't want to get intimate in my company.

So like you, I overthink and let paranoid take over. Which lead to chatting session, and even Courtesan reassurance that they do click in your company. I keep doubting the Courtesan on that.

But words of caution Mate... If you keep doubting when the Courtesan say she enjoy your company and click. You will annoyed her and anger her. Eventually, she will grow tired of doubtful on her words. Which she will stop taking your booking not see you no more. Even now I have one Courtesan who I have met. She at the point of anger and annoyed of me doubting her reassurance.

Their is course's you can seek help and try out Mate. I have done a course last year over my anxiety in Lady company, and it help a lot. As my last 4 meeting with a Courtesan. 2 here in Ireland and 2 abroad, has give me confident to relax and believe Courtesan reassurance.

So believe in yourself Mate, listen to the Courtesan assurance and her advice. One thing I learned. That if the Courtesan didn't enjoy your company. She wouldn't take a 2nd booking with you. As intimacy with the Courtesan consent, is part of her time n companionship business.

Try to let go and fully enjoy her company without fear and anxiety. As fear and anxiety will lead to being paranoid, and will ruin any meeting you have in Courtesan company. Count to 10 and breathe out before you walk in, and before you chat also.

Easy said then done. But as I mention, tell her your fear and anxiety. These Courtesan are very understanding, but don't keep doubting her words.

I know and understand your pain and fear. As we should be enjoying being in company of Ladies, that are stunning Beautiful looking. But it action is harder to act upon when anxious and nervous.

Good luck and hope it work out for you to conquer your anxiety.