So I might be gay or at least bi?

[iluvtgirls]

I've never been attracted to guys but recently I've been fantasizing about having sex with another man. I've always loved and been attracted to US and TV girls and met plenty and had fun every time but I started watching gay porn. Starting with girls showing picture of Vicks then videos of guys and eventually I went and found some myself to watch. Mostly twinks, femboys and crossdressers.

It was ok and I got the job done if you know what I mean but I wasn't really attracted to the men. Searching for it got me harder than watching it so maybe it's just a fetish thing. I did go on grinder though and again wasn't really into anyone other than the TS girls on it except for one young hairless slim and feminine looking 19 yr old guy. He even agreed to meet up with me but I chickened out at the last minute. I kind of regret it. I'm pretty sure I would have fucked him if we did meet. He was the only time I was actually attracted to another guy.

I know. Who gives a fuck about labels right but what do you guys think? Should I go through with it and meet a guy for sex?

[pegmyass85]

Exaclty who gives a fuck about labels.
Don't ever worry what others think do what makes you happy. I've been having sex with women and men since my late teens. To this day I've never been sexually attracted to a man. I watch all kinds of porn aswell. Offer me a man or a women to have sex with now 100% it'll be the women I take to bed. But when I'm single, bored and horny with no money for an escort I've no problem picking up the phone and finding a guy to have sex with.
If it's something you want to do and you think you'll enjoy then go for it..

[Micky No]

There was an interesting post on this from ContraPoints: "Are Traps Gay?"

Spoiler alert: no. And like you say, it doesn't matter anyway.

[Kenton]

I know the feeling bro, love gay porn, even have my own favourite type of gay porn, probably wank to it more than regular porn, seen plenty of trans escorts but never been with a guy. I'd love to, I know I most likely will at some stage but like yourself I think I would chicken out.

As for the gay stuff I think for most of us the older you get the less you care about labels. If you enjoy something just do it. I'd wager theres a sizeable chunk of blokes who are into both but would never admit it.

[Limerick069]

Exactly do what makes you happy, it’s true as you get older the less you care about labels... for me personally ive , been with a few TV and Ts and really enjoyed my time with them.. can’t say I’m attached to any man but recently I’ve had sex with a couple and enjoyed that too 🤭 bored and horny I’ll take whatever I can get and what puts a smile on my face .... so just go for it

[cleanshavencork]

I complete agree with everyone here. I have had sex with both men, women and TS. Yes attraction is important but only in a relationship in my opinion. If you want hot sex then the other persons orientation or sexuality don’t matter. I would like to meet a guy off **** but the old Irish labelling makes me chicken out. However I do frequent some of the cruise clubs in Cork and that satisfies my gay lust. As for porn gay is good....

[Kenton]

I complete agree with everyone here. I have had sex with both men, women and TS. Yes attraction is important but only in a relationship in my opinion. If you want hot sex then the other persons orientation or sexuality don’t matter. I would like to meet a guy off **** but the old Irish labelling makes me chicken out. However I do frequent some of the cruise clubs in Cork and that satisfies my gay lust. As for porn gay is good....

Yeah the thing about Ireland is its so small, 6 degrees of separation drops to 1 or 2 over here so makes doing anything you'd like to keep private pretty difficult.