Why do you visit escorts?Originally Posted by Cassandra
Because they're there and I've become too old and feeble to climb Everest.
String free Companionship
The pyhysical intimacy alone. C'mon now, you know , what it is
My wife don't do how she used to
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Why do you visit escorts?
Because they're there and I've become too old and feeble to climb Everest.
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I visited escorts for things a girl I just met won't do. For example, ass worship, pegging. With my current partner over a year and she's not into those things, and although I really want to do them I can't bring myself to use an escort while I'm on a relationship.
Cassandra (11-07-19)
It is hard for us as Human Beings to know why we do anything.
The answers may seem to be obvious but the real reasons are always more complex, and subliminal.
My own reason for visiting my first escort was a mixture of curiosity (curiosity about escorts, not about sex), a feeling that it was “something I wanted to do”, and of course the sex.
At the time, I thought that I would just visit a few escorts and then just lose interest!
Of course, it becomes addictive and as time passes my reasons have changed.
I thought that it was only a matter of time until the powers that be shut the entire thing down. In that case, it was “eat, drink and be merry, [and have time and companionship] because tomorrow it won’t be here. Paradoxically, I think, the powers that be’s attempt to shut it all down has had the opposite effect. It is not only “enjoy before it goes” but the “forbidden fruit” aspect as well.
It does help keep me away from awkward relationships, like the girl in the pub who has a bit of a liking for me but who is a bit psychologically toxic to be in a relationship with.
It is an opportunity to meet a lot of people I would not meet in my everyday life. I am tempted to add, humorously, “and have sex with them”! but it is about more than the sex.
Paradoxically, in this society where sex is seen as a sin, there is still social pressure to have an active sex life. I think I often have sex just because it is the thing to do, even though no-one knows about it.
But, for me, I think the underlying reason for visiting escorts is it is just “nice” to be in the company of a very pleasant person with a minimum of effort and inconvenience.
Cassandra (11-07-19),FetishCherry (20-07-19), JMastodon (15-07-19), S94310 (15-07-19),
i agree completely with you it is all down to needs some may think men's selfish needs but if the powers that be ignore them and continue to enforce this stupid law there may be terrible consequencesIt is hard for us as Human Beings to know why we do anything.
The answers may seem to be obvious but the real reasons are always more complex, and subliminal.
My own reason for visiting my first escort was a mixture of curiosity (curiosity about escorts, not about sex), a feeling that it was “something I wanted to do”, and of course the sex.
At the time, I thought that I would just visit a few escorts and then just lose interest!
Of course, it becomes addictive and as time passes my reasons have changed.
I thought that it was only a matter of time until the powers that be shut the entire thing down. In that case, it was “eat, drink and be merry, [and have time and companionship
It does help keep me away from awkward relationships, like the girl in the pub who has a bit of a liking for me but who is a bit psychologically toxic to be in a relationship with.
It is an opportunity to meet a lot of people I would not meet in my everyday life. I am tempted to add, humorously, “and have sex with them”! but it is about more than the sex.
Paradoxically, in this society where sex is seen as a sin, there is still social pressure to have an active sex life. I think I often have sex just because it is the thing to do, even though no-one knows about it.
But, for me, I think the underlying reason for visiting escorts is it is just “nice” to be in the company of a very pleasant person with a minimum of effort and inconvenience.
JMastodon (20-07-19)
Criminalising men for exercising a fundamental human need is completely unjust.
Cassandra (20-07-19),
Cause i wanna get laidd
Cassandra (15-07-19)
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Because i'm a naughty boy .
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Because I am angry incel.
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NONE of the following:
- String free Companionship
Its not FREE - Either in mental health or monetary terms
- The pyhysical intimacy alone
Some encounters are not physical
- My wife don't do how she used to
I will take the 5th Amendment on that one
- Convienance
Most providers have limited availability - when you want them they are not available - they dictate the hours
- Limited Social time due to Work
Gave up work as a bad job
- Easy Access
You have never tried to follow the directions of some providers
WHY DO I DO THIS - because I am a BAD boy - simple
Last edited by bigmango; 07-08-19 at 15:21. Reason: clean post with respect to the providers
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