Wives/Marriage/Unhappiness

[Arthur Guinness]

At least your being honest.

I think ya got to be honest with it.

Then ya have some chance of survival

[Jinxed]

Maybe Jinxed you haven't found the right Lady yet. Who will turn your head and make you feel alive and emotion of her desire. That you will see her as the only Lady you want in your life.

They say you only have 20% chance of marrying the Lady of your dreams. So don't dream of Lady you ever desire Jinxed

But in fairness if you set eyes on the right Lady, trust me mate your head will be turn. Which no other Lady will compare to her and only her you want to sleep with in your arms. (Ha no sexual expression this time )

Here a example of a Lady you could fall in love with Jinxed



Barney going to Love her after all the publisher about Lucie

But marriage is whole different game. As it not as easy to walk away without complication, if it end badly. I dated a Lady for 9 years and we had our ups and down, but unforseen consequence end that relationship.

No children. But we both laugh on one stage, where the men toilet in a pub on one afternoon became hot and steamy affair. Thankfully no one came in and relief on me was more evident.

But Jinxed never say never Mate on finding one true love. Who know what happen Jinxed. Look at my two friends, who end up dating ex Escorts, to which they or them Ladies never ever thought it would happen.

Love can happen in the strangest places Jinxed and both couples have their ups and downs. But marriage is no different to everyday problem to relationship is. Just only thing is marriage papers and a messy divorce can be costly.

Don't give up Jinxed as we all fall in love and some people more then other will fall in love. But if the right Lady come along you know when cupid hit.

Plus 6 years ago , I never found Blond Stunning Ladies attractive. But now my heart admire one truly Beautiful Blond hair Lady.

So just follow your heart, mind, c*ck Jinxed. It usually work most time . But do agree Mate. Variety is spice of life, which seeing and meeting new Ladies is exciting and thrill to

I've had the buzz, the happiness I met her, having in her my head when I'm not with her, her smile burning me up inside, no other girl anywhere like her, her name on a text or a call before I answer it exciting the fuck out of me.
Thinking I could spend years with you, thinking that I've never wanted children but I would with you if that's what it took to have you in my life forever.

One week later. Huh she's not as perfect as I thought.

Two weeks later. What the fuck was I thinking.

Three weeks later. The smile and texts and calls and anticipation of meeting is warming me up. But it's not her anymore. It's a new girl.

[bmw528]

I've had the buzz, the happiness I met her, having in her my head when I'm not with her, her smile burning me up inside, no other girl anywhere like her, her name on a text or a call before I answer it exciting the fuck out of me.
Thinking I could spend years with you, thinking that I've never wanted children but I would with you if that's what it took to have you in my life forever.

One week later. Huh she's not as perfect as I thought.

Two weeks later. What the fuck was I thinking.

Three weeks later. The smile and texts and calls and anticipation of meeting is warming me up. But it's not her anymore. It's a new girl.

And Four weeks later she got sense and told you to Fuck Off.

[Arthur Guinness]

And Four weeks later she got sense and told you to Fuck Off.

Common sense won out

[Ryankelvin]

Things change so much as u go thru life love is such a weird emotion, what u feel as an 18 y o changes so much when u enter ur forties Wish I could go back and tell my 18yo self all the emotions I feel will change and change dramatically. Getting bored is part of problem, having kids is also an issue and ur inclined to stay in a dead relationship for the sake of kids which is probably wrong. An advantage has been getting married young having kids when young has left that they are grown up and moved out and dementia has not entirely set in yet I really admire couples celebrating 50 r 60 years marriage. Don’t know how they do it

[Jinxed]

And Four weeks later she got sense and told you to Fuck Off.

You have to understand that I'm conditioned in my ways. This is not how I see things lately. It's been all my life.

And stop taking potshots at me. You don't know me.

[bmw528]

You have to understand that I'm conditioned in my ways. This is not how I see things lately. It's been all my life.

And stop taking potshots at me. You don't know me.

I know you a lot better than you think.

[FinnMickC00L]

You have to understand that I'm conditioned in my ways. This is not how I see things lately. It's been all my life.

And stop taking potshots at me. You don't know me.

I know you a lot better than you think.

Did you meet up in the wardrobe? It's dark in there .You need to feel your way around.

[bmw528]

Did you meet up in the wardrobe? It's dark in there .You need to feel your way around.

Shut up ye Fishy Fool.

[Jinxed]

I know you a lot better than you think.

Tbh with you. You will know what I let you know. I don't let anyone in and it's a habit I can't break. So I put on a front or facade and let people draw their own conclusions. Not on here.
I think that's why I started these threads to see how other people think and live, because of the way I think and live, I can't see anything other than loneliness and solitude when I'm not so young anymore and I don't have the energy or the stamina to jump from bed to bed.

What's fun and exciting now could be leading to untold misery in my future. While it is fun and exciting now, I know I can't sustain this way forever.